Jayo

“This is gonna hit some narcissists the wrong way, but it needs to be said. At some point, you have to stop playing the victim and admit you mishandled people. Not everything that fell apart happened to you, some of it happened because of how you moved. Losing people who genuinely cared wasn’t bad luck, it was the result of your actions. Instead of accountability, you surrounded yourself with cheerleaders who excuse narcissistic behavior and call it healing. But real growth doesn’t come from attention or validation. It comes from self awareness, accountability, and doing the uncomfortable work. And that’s exactly what narcissists try hardest to avoid.”