could you imagine family members denying the use of X only to use it b...

This kind of situation is more common than people admit. Family members (or close relations) often claim they “don’t use X” or “don’t care about social media,” yet quietly create accounts, follow or search for the person, and react when posts hit close to home. Denying use while monitoring is a classic way to gather information without accountability, then push back later through other channels, mutual contacts, or subtle digs. Venting publicly without naming names still often feels identifiable...