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NDC Ka Mma. Enjoy! youtube.com/watch?v=ycfgAzBS…

“All Igbo Business Men Knew About Those Producing F.ake D.rugs, that's why they don't take Champagne or Gin. They take beer instead!” CDO Official

“Na Peter Obi we want!” Marketers at Banex Plaza in Abuja chant in support of NDC presidential candidate, Mr Peter Obi, during a visit by the APC.

I don’t know how burial customs work in your culture, but in many Nigerian communities, a deceased man’s wife may have little or no influence over decisions about where her husband will be buried. In Igbo land, particularly in Anambra State, where I come from, burial arrangements traditionally involve different family groups, each with specific responsibilities. I cannot speak for every community in the SE, but in the tradition I am familiar with, three groups play important roles: 1. The Umunna: These are the deceased’s paternal kinsmen. The deceased’s sons are part of this group. If he has no son, his brothers are also members of the group. The Umunna play a central role in making decisions about the burial, including where the deceased will be laid to rest. Although the wife may express her wishes, the final decision may rest largely with the deceased’s paternal family. 2. The Nnacho: These are men from the deceased’s maternal family who, according to the custom I am familiar with, are responsible for marking the spot where the grave will be dug. 3. The Nwadiala: These are men born to women from the deceased’s paternal family who are traditionally responsible for digging the grave. They usually dig it on the day before the burial, after the grave site has been marked by the Nnacho. The point is that the surviving wife’s wishes do not necessarily determine where her husband will be buried, because his family’s customs and decisions may carry more weight than your personal wishes. Lastly, whether your culture is different from mine or not, saying, “Nobody has a say in where my husband should be buried apart from me his wife,” is still wrong. Your husband has a family. By marriage, you become part of that family, and you also bear their family name. Remember, when they came to seek your hand in marriage, your husband didn’t come alone. His family was involved too. You can express your wishes and make suggestions, but you cannot assume that you have the sole authority to make that decision without considering his family.

On this UK marital challenge issues, I am a living victim. I am still battling with pro max disrespect from my wife. I was a Bank Regional manager b4 she convinced me to relocate majorly cos of the kids, getting over, I discovered she had other motives. It has been from one hell of argument to others over the last 4 yrs since we've been here. I have been depressed over & over again for leaving a productive life to come suffer abroad. Most men won't come out to talk as these women use the social media to wipe up sentiments. She allows me to have sex when she feels like & even then, it's always do whatever you want to do & get off. Aside all the things I sold to get us over, I borrowed £15k for her school fees & when she graduated, she sent the cert to her parents in 9Ja & I only got to hear about it from family WhatsApp chat. She's threatened to call police on me and that I will do jail term all cos I checked her phone when she was moving suspiciously & she knew i have discovered what she's hiding...... I have kept my receipt & evidences without her knowing and waiting for the day I will make my final move. Men are suffering in this abroad but as always & cos they wont always get the right judgement, they keep quite and allow things be. I have my plans & I know someday, she might also come to social media to seek the sympathy & I have my facts...but unfortunately, I will never allow my life to be discussed online. ©Sent by anonymous to Amusa Sherifdeen Ajani inbox.