Advocate Sunil Sharma

I will almost always reply your concern, posted as comment to my posts, if it complies the following: 1. No abuse to anyone, including govt. & courts. 2. No hate mongering towards opposite sex. That's it. And I'm all in for sarcasm. Be a funny and healthy troll, if you would.

What an absolute mess of a time Should you raise your son well? Does it guarantee a good wife? Should you raise your daughter well? Does it guarantee a good husband? Well, we all must do our part. Right! If that is what we all should think, we need not raise ours well, just expect other's well raised children. My research is leading me to no end, but deeper into the questions that have no end. I couldn't be a good administrator even if I tried. I think too much for deeper technicalities while disputes require immediate end otherwise they lead to disaster by the time you resolve them. Well... is it why Courts force husbands to just pay and end the disputes to the satisfaction of both? If yes, are they really the demon we imagine them to be?

Let us ignore it because a man did it Or Let us bash because a man did it Let us not talk about justice. Let's tell everyone what's our version of justice is.

What an absolute mess. What does system promote? Sides? No, confusions. While @BJP4India and @RSSorg clearly deny their hindu identity or goals, their IT Cells do still promote Hindu Khatre mein hai and Hindu Rajya. If I call BJP being radically Hindu, they'll deny. If I call them anti Hindu, their IT Cells will follow with denials. Similarly, system is not promoting men or women safety or equality. Its promoting division and confusion. While men pay maintenance from the date of application, with next to no defence allowing them escape, women take years to get that relief (even interim maintenance). She suffered years of frustration to what she was legally entitled to, and you remained in a constant struggle to defend something you just can't. This conflict between you. This confusion where both feel victims and none enjoys their right as defined, is sugar coated with words like "fair trial", while we all know (if you're not blind or stupid) that there exists no fair trial in maintenance cases. Its a no fault liability. Identify the root cause, but how. Identifying causes needs education and our education teaches us trigonometry, poems, stories but never law or responsibility. Not even rights and how to stand up for them. Situation is a complete mess with system spreading one cancer and society demanding the other.

How can educated people act so uneducated? A doctor (client) said "Not afraid of law but my Hindu dharma doesn't allow me second marriage." When did that happen? Hindu dharma didn't allow divorce. There's no fix number of marriages for a man. Its not dharma, its the law that bars second marriage.

I don't think democracy in India has failed. Its just that bad people know how to make use of it and good people barely survive with life.

I forgot to add the picture 😅

And then they say "husband doesn't own wife's sexuality or control sexual choices outside marriage." While keeping the husbands engaged for the same act, calling it civil wrong and mental cruelty.

Judge sahib apna soch ke dar gye. But God bless a bed ridden non earning husband should pay the maintenance to an able bodied wife.

And all this while remaining democratic without transparent selection process and unaccountable to even the biggest of blunders or corruption. India is still heaven, you were born in the wrong section.

Common people: Why do husband pay maintenance to wife? Especially without any corresponding duty? If I owe her a duty she must owe me a duty in return, because any agreement without consideration is void. Court: Its because marriage is not a contract but a sacrament. Religion: Well, in that case, she must come on "Doli" and leave on "Arthi" only. Because religiously she owes 7 promises in exchange of a man's 7 promises. Court: That's patriarchal mindset. Patriarchy: Now where did I come in this all? Can you keep it between you two? Court:

Horrible experience @CasioIndia New watch, QR Code to register product is a dead web page link. Registering it from website ends up only in error. Email doesn't get any replies. Not even acknowledgement. What is even working?

Its a shame that they pick and choose the verses. Manusmriti also says this But .... that's patriarchal

The more I research, the more I conclude For a successful marriage, there has to be one psycho partner. Two normal human beings, caring for their own rights and ignorant towards their duties, can not make for a successful marriage.

All the matrimonial deaths, be it men or women, are attributable to the system. Despite being torturous for one side, it provides no relief to the other as well. But pressure groups actively work for and against genders. Giving free hand to the system to just delay resolution as long as they can. This is all us. We failed to ask for proper accountability because we only want our benefits secured.

That is true.