Please date within your expectation. If you want a man to be just as concerned about your maintenance as you are, then date a man who is concerned about his woman’s Maintance and appearance. If you want your bills to be paid then date a man who loves to provide for his family and his children. If you want a man that’s thoughtful then you have to date a man who takes effort in remembering things that are important to you and him. We have to date within our expectation. Stop dating people and then trying to make them climb the expectation ladder and then say “oh they don’t like me”, no you’re just dating below your expectation bracket.