the algorithm feeds off of discourse, arguments and toxic behavior. you’d be on your phone a lot less if it didn’t activate your flight or fight response.
life is full of so much love then you come on the internet and it’s just negativity and toxic behavior.
usually the internet reflects what’s happening in the world but somewhere along the line there was a disconnect
i hate repeating myself about an issue. if i tell you something more than once and it doesn’t change im gonna assume you don’t care to change it
the internet is the only place where a person who’s barely graduated high school will argue with an expert about something they’ve spent their entire life researching … we live in such a wondrous age
holy shit we’ve actually lost the art of empathy as humans & are starting to condemn anyone who possesses it. just look at the comments … i’m losing hope everyday
i’ve started to see ads for things i’ve THOUGHT about buying but never searched or even talked about out loud. they tapping into our brains now it’s done
you really gotta binge one piece instead of watching weekly episodes cuz i’d be mad af if i waited a whole week & the entire thing is just flashbacks 😭😭😭
we need someone to start convincing young women that majority of plastic surgery and filler doesn’t actually look good irl and only looks good in pictures
Hot take: being loyal during a talking stage is UNNECESSARY and it’s taking its toll on the dating scene.
Obviously lying/not being transparent to someone about sleeping with other people is WRONG. but there’s nothing wrong with being honest about dating multiple people until you’ve decided to be mutually exclusive with one.
Dating/a talking stage should be about getting to know your compatibility with someone and figure out if you want long term exclusivity.
That’s how dating used to be beforehand, and how many people 30+ date. They go for dinners, coffee, etc. get to know multiple people and until they have a chat about where they both stand, neither assumes the other is exclusive.
















