Fear and love don’t go together, if you want your wife to fear you then you don’t want her to love you. A woman can’t fear you and love you at the same time. P.s - Reverence is different from fear.

Marry a kind man o… I was involved in a gas explosion that had both legs burned. Both my legs were bandaged and for days I couldn’t walk. My husband doesn’t know how to cook but before I said I was hungry, he would have ordered food. One day he came home with two different pure aloe Vera extract gels and two pots of the aloe Vera plant. He said he heard that aloe Vera helps to heal burns.. The next day someone delivered a big bottle of honey .. my husband said. Another person told him honeys was good for burns but most honey they sold were fake so he ordered some from a vendor in the village that harvests the honey by herself… I asked how much he bought it.. he said it was expensive but I shouldnt worry, my healing was his priority . On one of those days I couldn’t walk, I woke up in the midnight and needed to pee, my husband had worked till very late at night so he slept off in his work space. I called for him to come carry me but he couldn’t hear me, so I dragged myself to the bathroom in pain when I got back to the bed I had peed a little on myself and cleaning up without being able to walk or stand felt impossible… I immediately started to cry… my crying woke my husband up and he rushed into the room asking if I was okay… he kept apologizing for sleeping off in his work space while cleaning me up and cleaning my tears… When a man is unkind he knows he is unkind. A kind man will never hold back or give excuses. Anuoluwatimileyin Oko mi. God bless the day you gave me your party rice 😍😍