Wow, @kmichelle !! This album was truly necessary, it’s truly special 🥹❤️
You showed the country world and doubters, YOU GOT A HANDLE ON IT 🌻
And unfortunately this is the problem with the community as a whole.
Had some many great qualities but want to focus on “too feminine for my taste”. Can everyone just grow tf up.
I rejected a guy because he was too feminine for my taste.
He was sweet, funny, emotionally available, and made it obvious that he liked me. But I wanted someone more masculine, so I told him we weren't compatible.
He accepted it gracefully and moved on.
A year later, I saw him again at a mutual friend's birthday party. He had a boyfriend, and the two of them looked genuinely happy.
I won't lie. I felt jealous.
I started paying more attention to him, messaging him, and finding excuses to be around him.
Eventually, he pulled me aside and asked, “Why do you suddenly want me now that someone else does?”
I had no answer.
But then he told me something about the way he'd felt after I rejected him, and I realized I might have hurt him more than I ever understood.
Was I wrong for wanting him now, or did I simply realize what I'd lost too late?
Unfortunately this makes sense, men having to be “the man” when reciprocation is right there!
AND this is why I hate when gays try to bring the heteronormative bullshit to our relationships too.
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How to Lose a Gay Man When Dating in 2 weeks:
Text him “Good morning” everyday
Text back in less than 30 min.
Care about his day & wellbeing
Offer him moral support
Communicate effectively
Don’t play mind games
Ask to see him when he’s free
Plan date nights
Like him
