My wife was not only cheating on me, but she was also using my money to take care of the man she was cheating with. Everything started when she suddenly resigned from her job. Me: “Baby, why did you resign without discussing it with me first?” Wife: “I'm tired of working. I need a break.” Me: “A break is fine, but what is your plan? We have bills to pay, and I'm already taking care of almost everything.” Wife: “So now I'm a burden to you?” Me: “That's not what I said. I'm asking us to plan our finances together.” We argued about it several times, but she refused to look for another job. Months passed, and I became responsible for the rent, food, electricity, and almost every other household expense. One evening, I sat beside her and tried to talk calmly. Me: “Baby, I can't keep carrying every expense alone forever. You need to start thinking about what you want to do next.” Wife: “You have a job. You earn money. Why do you keep making me feel bad for staying at home?” Me: “I'm not asking you to suffer. I'm asking you to help us build our life together.” She became upset and refused to speak to me for the rest of the night. Eventually, I decided to make things easier for her. I gave her access to my account so she could buy groceries, pay for household needs, and withdraw money whenever something came up. At first, everything seemed normal. Then I started noticing something strange. Almost every week, money was leaving my account. Sometimes it was a small amount; other times, it was much more. Whenever I asked her about it, she became defensive. Me: “Baby, I noticed another transfer from my account. What was that money used for?” Wife: “Why are you monitoring every single thing I spend?” Me: “Because I need to understand where our money is going.” Wife: “You gave me access to the account yourself! Now you're behaving as if you don't trust me.” I tried to explain that I wasn't accusing her of anything. But every time I asked, she turned the conversation into an argument about how little I cared about her. After several months, I began to suspect that something was seriously wrong. I had no idea that the woman I trusted with my money was sending it to another man.