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๐จWe are releasing our film 'Invisible Children' this evening at 6.30pm. ๐จ
The film can be viewed at this link below:
youtube.com/watch?v=LsAaWCEDโฆ
This film demonstrates the importance of identification and support for children with a parent in prison. It highlights the need for this issue to be raised in Parliament and for immediate policy change to be enacted.
Thank you to @KerryMP, who will be bringing forward a 10 Minute Rule Bill on parental imprisonment next Tuesday the 21st of May.
Thank you to @Rachel_deSouza for supporting this Bill.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฝ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ. ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐๐๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ. ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ผ๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น.
Today, Parliament debates Paris's Law, following a campaign supported by over 107,000 people.
Paris Shears has used her own experience of domestic abuse to expose how control can continue through the criminal justice system.
At Children Heard and Seen, we recognise that imprisonment does not necessarily end coercive control. Children can remain caught in patterns of manipulation, fear and emotional harm, while the parent caring for them may continue to experience abuse.
Children are victims in their own right. Their experiences must be recognised, their safety prioritised and their voices heard.
Thank you to Paris Shears for turning personal experience into a national call for change, and to Irene Campbell MP @lucydahlia for bringing this debate to Parliament.
We hope today's debate marks an important step towards greater recognition of coercive control and its impact on everyone affected, including children.
๐บ Watch live from 4.30pm: parliamentlive.tv/
Read Paris's powerful account: parislaw.co.uk/about-me/blog
#ParissLaw #CoerciveControl #DomesticAbuse #ParentalImprisonment #ChildrenHeardAndSeen
โ๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐๐ค๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐ค๐ฃ? ๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐ก๐?โ
At the 2026 @womenofyear Awards, Founder and CEO, @SarahBurrows100, received the @lorraine Trailblazer Award for her extraordinary dedication to children impacted by parental imprisonment.
In this powerful extract from her acceptance speech, Sarah asks us to confront the realities faced by children who have witnessed domestic abuse, violence and unimaginable trauma.
โ๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ค ๐ข๐๐จ๐จ๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐๐ช๐ฉ ๐๐จ ๐๐ก๐จ๐ค ๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ค๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ข?โ
With ๐ฑ๐ฏ% of children identified as being at risk of harm from their imprisoned parent, we must stop assuming that maintaining family ties is always in a child's best interests.
Every child's safety matters. Every experience deserves to be recognised. Every voice deserves to be heard.
๐ฅ Watch Sarah's full acceptance speech here: youtu.be/YHyDdgJytaQ
#ChildrenHeardAndSeen #WomenOfTheYear #LorraineTrailblazerAward #CWPiPday
๐๐ We are absolutely delighted that Children Heard and Seenโs Founder, @SarahBurrows100, was named the winner of the @lorraine Trailblazer Award at yesterdayโs Women of the Year Awards!
This recognition is not only a celebration of Sarahโs incredible work, but another opportunity to shine a light on children impacted by parental imprisonment, whose voices too often go unheard.
A huge thank you to @womenofyearear, Lorraine and everyone involved in making the event so special.
Congratulations to all the other incredible winners! It was a privilege to be surrounded by so many inspirational women, all making a difference in their own way.
We couldn't be prouder! ๐
#WomenOfTheYear #LorraineTrailblazerAward #ChildrenHeardAndSeen
๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ช๐ฆ ๐ช๐๐ก๐ฆ ๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ช๐ข๐ ๐๐ก ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ช๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฒ! ๐
What a morning. โค๏ธ
Our Founder and CEO, @SarahBurrows100, walked into the @lorraine @ITV studio this morning believing she was one of three finalists.
She walked out as the 2026 winner of the ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ @womenofyear ๐ง๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐น๐ฏ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ.
For more than a decade, Sarah has fought to make sure children with a parent in prison are recognised, heard and supported.
Speaking to Lorraine this morning, Sarah said:
โ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ฃ ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ค๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ข๐ค๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ๐ซ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐ฅ๐จ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ง๐ฎ.โ
Children Heard and Seen began around Sarahโs kitchen table in 2014. Everything that has grown from there has only been possible because of the strength and courage of the children and families we support, who have trusted us with their experiences and helped shine a light on an issue that has remained hidden for far too long.
And, of course, alongside them are our incredible staff, volunteers, supporters and partners who have shared Sarahโs determination to create change.
Today, that national spotlight is shining a little brighter.
We could not be prouder of you, Sarah. โค๏ธ๐
#Lorraine #WomanOfTheYear #TrailblazerAward #ChildrenHeardAndSeen
๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐.
Parental imprisonment rarely exists in isolation. It can sit alongside domestic abuse, sexual offending, trauma, bereavement and other complex experiences.
Thatโs why our support isnโt one-size-fits-all.
At Children Heard and Seen, we create highly specialised peer, therapeutic and lived-experience spaces, including:
๐ Trauma Recovery following Domestic Abuse
๐ Holding the Child, Healing the Parent โ for parents/carers facing a future of raising or sharing a child with someone who has committed a sexual offence
๐จ Therapeutic Art Groups โ delivered by trained Drawing and Talking practitioners
๐ฎ Therapeutic Minecraft โ using a safe digital โsand trayโ to help children explore their worlds and experiences
๐ Domestic Homicide Lived Experience Focus Group โ ensuring lived experience directly shapes how services are developed and delivered
Because sometimes finding the right support means finding a space where you donโt have to explain why your experience is different.
A space where you are understood.
๐พ ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ด๐๐ป! ๐
This week, children and young people in ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ป๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ began a brand-new six-week Animal Explorers project, bringing together those who share the experience of having a parent in prison.
Through animals and the natural world, theyโll explore habitats, ecosystems, conservation and the impact of climate change, building STEM skills through research, design, budgeting, problem-solving and creativity. ๐ฑ๐ฌ๐จ
Just as importantly, theyโre connecting, creating, laughing and having fun in a space where parental imprisonment is understood and doesnโt need to be hidden or explained.
Their experience of parental imprisonment is part of what connects them โ but it doesnโt define who they are or what they can become.
๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ธ, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐
๐ฝ๐น๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐. ๐ง๐ผ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ผ๐? ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ. ๐๐พ
#ChildrenHeardAndSeen #ParentalImprisonment #CreateAndConnect #AnimalExplorers #STEM #Conservation
This week in during online @FreedomProgramm group, the focus was on The Sexual Controller โ exploring sexually abusive and controlling behaviours, the tactics used, and how living with them over time can break down a personโs confidence, autonomy and sense of safety.
For some families, the period before a parent goes to prison has been characterised by fear, instability, coercion and abuse within the family home. And imprisonment does not necessarily bring that abuse to an end. Control and abuse can continue from a prison cell.
Recent @MoJGovUK data found that 53% of children identified with a parent in prison were recorded as being at risk of harm from that parent.
That is why support for the parent or carer who remains at home matters too.
The Freedom Programme group provides a space to understand what has happened, recognise patterns of abusive behaviour and begin recovery. Supporting a parent or carer to rebuild safety, confidence and control in their own life can help create the conditions for recovery across the whole family.
When Katie* was a young child, her father killed her mother. He maintained parental responsibility, and Katie was made to spend weekends with him when he was released.
Katie is one of 18 adults with lived experience who are part of Children Heard and Seen's Domestic Homicide Advisory Group. Together, we are campaigning for the rights of children affected by domestic homicide, so that the child's best interest is considered in every situation.
Listen to the full interview on BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour here: bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002w5โฆ
New Ministry of Justice UK data reveals that 53% of children with a parent in prison are at risk of harm from their imprisoned parent.
People often assume that children who have a parent in prison will always simply miss their parent, and long for their return home. The reality is far more complex.
When a parent is sent to prison, children often experience a variety of conflicting emotions, from missing their parent in prison, to being glad that they are now safe from them and fearful of their release.
For some children, strengthening family ties with a parent in prison is not the answer; it may be inappropriate and, in some circumstances, unsafe.
Support for children with a parent in prison must ๐๐ฅ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ be child-focused and individually tailored to what is in their best interests.
This clip is taken from 'Waiting for the Out' on the @BBC, adapted from @AndyWPhilosophy's acclaimed memoir ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ.
๐๐ถ๐๐๐น๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป. ๐๐ถ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐.
New @MoJGovUK data identified ๐ฏ๐ฎ,๐ฑ๐ณ๐ต children aged ๐ฌโ๐ฐ with a #parentinprison.
They may not understand why things have changed. But they feel the change.
The absence of a parent, different routines, changes at home and the emotions of the adults around them can all be experienced by even the youngest children.
Thatโs why supporting the parent or carer is so important too.
At Children Heard and Seen, we help parents and carers build the confidence and tools to talk to children in age-appropriate ways, respond to their feelings and behaviours, and create the security and stability they need to thrive.
Because supporting the person caring for the child is also supporting the child.
#ChildrenHeardAndSeen #ParentalImprisonment #EarlyYears #ParentCarerSupport
๐๐ป๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ฒ๐
๐ถ๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐ปโ๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต.
New @MoJGovUK data shows that ๐ฑ๐ฎ% of children identified as having a parent in prison had no associated address information available.
๐ช๐ต๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ?
Because without location information, children cannot be connected through this process to their local authority and the support that may be available to them.
We finally have greater recognition of the scale of parental imprisonment. But counting children is only the beginning.
At Children Heard and Seen, we believe identification must lead to an offer of support in the childโs own community โ not another system waiting for a child or family to ask for help.
Children should not have to find specialist support by chance.
#ChildrenHeardAndSeen #ParentalImprisonment #EarlyIntervention #ChildrensVoices
53% of children identified were recorded as being at risk of harm from their imprisoned parent.
This new @MoJGovUK finding matters.
For many children, a parent's release doesn't simply mean โreconnecting as a familyโ. It can mean fear about seeing them again, being confronted unexpectedly in the community, or uncertainty about what happens next.
This is why specialist support is so important.
At Children Heard and Seen, we help children and those caring for them with safety planning, preparation for release, navigating unexpected contact, and ensuring the child's voice is heard in social care and multi-agency assessments.
Family ties matter โ but only when they are safe and in the child's best interests.
Every child deserves support that starts with their needs, their voice and their safety.
#ChildrenHeardAndSeen #ParentalImprisonment #Safeguarding #ChildrensVoices
Today, the @MoJGovUK has published new national data on children with a parent in prison.
The new estimate is stark: ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ต,๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฌ children had a parent in prison in England and Wales between October 2023 and October 2024 โ around ๐ฎ% of all school-aged children.
But the publication tells us much more than the scale.
More than half (๐ฑ๐ฏ%) of the children identified were recorded as being at risk of harm from the imprisoned parent.
Only ๐ฏ๐ฎ% were recorded on prison visitor lists โ an important reminder that having a parent in prison does not necessarily mean that a child visits them, or that maintaining contact is always safe or in their best interests.
We are particularly pleased to see the Ministry of Justice draw on evidence from Children Heard and Seen, noting our finding that ๐ฒ๐ณ% of the children we support do not visit prison.
For many years, we have called for children affected by parental imprisonment to be identified, heard and offered support based on their individual needs โ not assumptions about what their relationship with the person in prison should look like.
This new evidence reinforces why that matters.
Behind the figure of 219,000 are individual children whose experiences can include loss, stigma, trauma, domestic abuse, financial hardship and significant changes to family life.
They should not remain invisible.
We welcome this important step forward in understanding the scale and circumstances of parental imprisonment โ and will continue working to ensure that evidence leads to meaningful change for children.
gov.uk/government/publicatioโฆ
Katie* bravely gives her account on @BBCRadio4 Woman's Hour of what she can remember as a child when her father was convicted of killing her mother.
This was in the 1980s, and very little support was offered, as Katie* and her family were forced to deal with the impacts of losing both parents overnight on their own.
Shockingly, very little has changed. 40 years on, we still do not even know how many children are affected by domestic homicide each year, and there is no statutory support available.
Children Heard and Seen hold a monthly Domestic Homicide Advisory Group with 17 adults who have lived experience of domestic homicide. Together, we are campaigning for the voices of these children to be heard, so that they can receive the support they need and deserve.
Listen to Katie's full interview on Woman's Hour here: bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002w5โฆ
Over 200 schools from across the country have accessed our Parental Imprisonment Training in the past 6 months. We are delighted that teachers and school staff are being appropriately equipped with the understanding and resources to effectively support children with a parent in prison in the school environment.
At Children Heard and Seen, we have long campaigned for support for children with a parent in prison to take place in schools. Children should have the opportunity to discuss their feelings around having a parent in prison, should they wish to, with a safe and trusted adult in the school environment.
Policy around children with a parent in prison currently focuses on establishing a mechanism to identify these children. We will continue campaigning to ensure these children are not left behind, but offered tailored, targeted support so they are able to flourish into adulthood.
๐ฌ When I Grow Up
Our When I Grow Up film is an excellent resource for early years settings and schools, helping children develop empathy and understanding around what it can mean to have a parent in prison.
A simple, child-friendly way to open conversations, challenge stigma and remind children that a parentโs prison sentence should never define their future. ๐
Download the full film: childrenheardandseen.co.uk/2โฆ
#WhenIGrowUp #ChildrenHeardAndSeen #ParentalImprisonment #Schools
๐จ Creativity, connection and a little time for yourself.
This week our online creative group for parents and carers explored ๐ฃ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐๐ฟ๐ โ with some fantastic results! ๐ฅ๐๏ธ
Even better, the session was led by someone we support, sharing their creativity and skills with the group.
Itโs exactly what these sessions are about โ creating a relaxed space for those caring for a child with a #parentinprison to connect, chat, laugh and support one another.
A huge thank you to all our funders and supporters who help make spaces like this possible. ๐
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๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐
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๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐. ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ - ๐๐ ๐๐๐'๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐!"
This weekend over 300 children and family members impacted by parental imprisonment travelled down to Oxford to take part in our annual Summer Residential. Families travelled from as far as Durham and St. Austell to celebrate their shared experiences and forge long-lasting connections.
These residentials are growing in size and impact each year, and would not be possible without the invaluable support from volunteers and partnership organisations in the community.
Over a third of the 82 volunteers who so generously gave their support this weekend have lived experience of parental imprisonment. Young people we have supported as an organisation came back as young adults, adults who had a parent in prison as a child led creative activities such as yoga and crafts, and a grandparent we started supporting over 11 years ago offered face painting.
It is so brilliant that families we support are able to access this event, and have shared with us the power the residential has to reduce social isolation, and feelings of shame and stigma among children with a parent in prison.
However, this remains the only event of its kind anywhere in the country.
The Children's Minister @JoshMacAlister recently assured us that the government pilot project to identify and support children with a parent in prison will offer '๐ต๐ข๐ช๐ญ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต ๐ข๐ค๐ค๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฅ๐ถ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ด'. There is no further information on what this will look like, however, and who will be providing this support.
As families from all across the country book next year's Summer Residential, we at Children Heard and Seen hope this is a genuine commitment from the government, so children with a parent in prison will not always have to travel hundreds of miles to access support in their own communities.
Children Heard and Seen Residential 2026 has come to an end. Four incredible days together at Hill End where over 300 family members impacted by parental imprisonment, came together.
From Forest School, Laser Tag to CHaS Has Got Talent, climbing wall, football, crafts, live music, the Teddy Bearsโ Picnic, BBQs, ice cream parlours, laughter and so much more.
But the residential is about so much more than activities. Itโs about children and families affected by parental imprisonment coming together, making friendships, trying something new, having fun and spending time with people who understand.
A huge thank you to every single person who made this weekend possible โ our wonderful volunteers, staff, activity providers, community partners, businesses, funders and everyone who donated items, food, equipment, time or expertise.
Thank you especially to all the children, young people, parents and carers who travelled from across England and Wales to join us.












