This is exactly how brutally honest I am and I ALWAYS want to have people like me around me. Throw my fvck ups to my face. If I am discomforting you, tell me its time to leave your house. My best friend actually did this to me once when his wife was around and I did not take it personal. Till date, whenever he or his siblings need help, I still ALWAYS come through for them. Asking me to leave his house coz his wife was not comfortable with having me around did not make me love him, his siblings or wife any less. It actually made me appreciate him more coz he was honest. What I hate so much however is performative people or people who try to patronize me with lies. I will always give it to you straight and I expect same from you. If I am not fvcking you right, tell me. If I have an odor, tell me because if your vagina is smelling, I will definitely tell you. If you get fat, I will tell you. There is nothing I hate more than been made to walk on eggshells and I do not appreciate people walking on ehgshells around me. Can't stand performative people too.