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Hi I’m Sekumade Adedapo, a Fashion Model who brings authenticity and natural energy to every set. My journey includes campaigns for brands and and Editorial magazines I’ll like to work it. I’m dedicated to embodying diverse narratives and always seeking new creative challenges. instagram.com/shakesman07?ig…

I was having a discussion with a female colleague one time and she said “i too want to marry a REACH man”🤡🤡 Majority can’t spell correctly, can’t construct a simple sentence, can’t comprehend, can’t carry a conversation smoothly but they want the best of the best men available. Most of these girls have nothing to offer you, only their bodies. Any lady that thinks she deserves to be treated well or she deserves The good things of life from a man because she’s beautiful or because she has a banging body is a lazy, entitled woman that’ll be a liability to whoever that would date or marry her.

Many men know the kind of women they ought not to have anything serious to do with and the one they ought to take serious, the problem is they’re not sexually disciplined enough to walk away from the unserious ones.

Dating girls from poor homes and poor backgrounds is you seeing danger and running into it. Those girls can never love you, they don’t have love to give you, they’ll always see you as an escape route out of poverty. Those girls are just meant for fun and nothing serious.

They have but they know they’re irresponsible so they’ll rather go to their responsible boyfriends who are “intentional”

Genuine interest tends to come with basic effort like saving the contact the performance starts when the effort is missing.

Trust is the most important currency in every relationship, and Nigeria has a severe deficit of it. That is not new. You bought an iPhone from a random gadget store and it packed up in five hours. Unfortunate, but the internet will not fix the phone or force the store to pick your call. Go there physically. Document everything. Demand your money or a working replacement. Sitting online asking why Nigerian businesses cannot be trusted will not get your phone fixed. Buying anything that is not brand new carries higher risk anywhere, especially here, because too many people value money above relationships and will throw you under the bus for it. Due diligence is not optional. Referral, track record, and verification matter more than price. Next time, do that first. Nigeria is hard enough without adding avoidable problems.

This is pure selective reciprocity dressed up as balance. She is on regular allowance (ongoing provision from him) while her big “reciprocity” story is one time she helped with his rent when his business was struggling. That is not equivalent investment. One crisis bailout is not the same as consistent monthly provision, and calling it the same thing is dishonest. Her whole framework is “I only invest after he has already made my well-being a priority.” That is not reciprocity. That is conditional participation. Real mutual investment starts from both sides early, not after the man has already locked in the provider role and then “earns” her occasional support. The saying about “where her money is, her heart is” applies here, if she only puts money in when he has already proven he will keep providing, the default is still one-sided. She has her own business and money, yet still takes the allowance. That is her choice, but then framing it as some high-level partnership while the structure remains “he provides regularly, I help when he has earned it” is exactly the entitlement pattern many men complain about. Reciprocity is not “I match energy after you have already carried the financial weight.” It is both sides contributing without the man having to first prove he will keep the provision going.

Any man who spends recklessly on a first outing and later begs for refund has already lost the frame. She saw the weakness early. Next time, say “I don’t pay for things I didn’t plan” and keep walking.

Stop overdoing or trying to prove yourself to a lady you just met by spending recklessly or foolishly in her because in the end if she doesn’t like you and you request for a refund of your money, she’ll disgrace you online and tell you “DID I FORCE YOU TO DO IT” ? 🤷🏽‍♂️

You want to roll with a big girl but you don’t have money?” Translation: I will use you until the money finishes, then shame you publicly. Young men, hear this, act accordingly and stop being a weak simp

Madam, that activity does not require her to pack her bags and move into his house. Head-on-lap + listening to complaints is a normal date-night or “come visit me” thing. It is not a unique benefit that only appears after she starts living there full-time and his food, light, water, and general household bills go up. The man already said he can cook, clean, and handle his own business, or outsource what he doesn’t want to do. You replied with “but she will console you.” That is not a counter to his point. That is changing the subject from practical costs to soft emotional labour that can happen without cohabitation. If the strongest argument for her moving in is “she will put your head on her lap when you’re stressed,” then the practical side of the arrangement is still one-sided: he pays more for space, food, and utilities while she gets housing + the ability to claim that basic affection is a special contribution. Relationships are supposed to have mutual sacrifice, not “you cover the increased bills and I’ll provide the comforting gestures that couples already do without living together.”

She has her money and still wants more from you all the time to fund her business or lifestyle, That’s not partnership,That’s cruel entitlement.

Young men, the easiest time to leave is now. Once you start funding her lifestyle and shouldering her responsibilities as the boyfriend, imagine what you’ll do when you eventually turn to her HUSBAND ?🤷🏽‍♂️

Married men, this is why some of you are quiet in the house. You ignored the early signs. When a woman is comfortable extracting huge or little amount from you constantly while you’re dating, marriage would give her more confidence to ask for more.

The fastest way to know when your woman doesn’t have your best interests at heart is when she doesn’t discuss serious and other things with you apart from asking you to send money all the time. This is female nature when she doesn’t like you. Learn it now or learn it painfully later.

My Bro 😎: If your woman needs money for good Things or irrelevant things and she doesn’t have a job or she can’t put you into consideration of what you earn or if you can afford it , you don’t have a partner. You have a project. Young men, stop collecting projects. Your money has better places to go.

My Bro 😎: the woman who makes you feel guilty for not funding her every desire will drain you slowly. Choose women who can handle basic life without turning you into a sponsor.

The girl that asks for a huge amount of money without consideration while she’s still in school or while she’s not yet working is the same girl that will call you selfish when you say no later. Brothers, protect your peace and your account. Both are expensive to replace.

She won’t ask her parents or siblings for an enormous list of things she wants but she’ll rather ask the man she’s dating. Young men, if money is the language she’s speaking this early, that’s the only language she’ll ever speak, run away from her !!!