I'll be honest it's a bit sad that I can make a compilation of how many people were only worried about "where I got my gear" vs who wanted to meet up, be friends, have a play scene. It's very telling of ones character in the community 1/?...
I'll be polite and tell them where I got things, and nothing comes from it. But they have time to create plans with others.
There's a reason I want people to ask before DM-ing me. I would like a tangible worthwhile conversations to happen...