𝐷𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑎 𝑑𝑒 𝑅𝑎𝑎𝑓

‘Stalking’ by a narcissist/psychopath/coercive controller has a specific purpose: CONTROL and destruction. Stalking is better described as Uber-reconnaissance! The attention to gathering information goes WAY outside the realms of what people would believe. They simply MUST know when, where and how they can compromise the target. They find ways to get access to email accounts, phone records, house security, meeting schedules, children’s activities, medical records, historical data, employment records. They get this information by bribes, calling in favours, impersonating others, intimidation, pretending to need the data for a crucial event, becoming proficient in IT. Narcissists/psychopaths/coercive controllers are up to 10% of the population! This ‘stalking’ is going on all around us all the time!

Narcissists/psychopaths see themselves as superior because they don’t experience fear or shame. They see this as a superpower. They are smugly satisfied with their life which they use to harm & distress others. Any good they do is merely part of a facade! Are they curable? No.