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Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
I just got off a call with one of my ex girlfriend who has refused to move on for years.
She said, “I called you just to thank you for not taking me back after I begged you for almost two years. I've finally found the right man for me.”
I was about to ask her what that had to do with me. She then forwarded her wedding invitation to me on WhatsApp.
Immediately I opened it, I was speechless.
The man she was getting married to was the same man who had just left my office the 4 days ago.
As a matter of fact, my printing company was the one that designed and printed their wedding invitation.
Apparently, the man wanted to get married here in Nigeria and return to the UK, where he is based, because he didn't want to marry a wife abroad.
When he came to my office,...
I have never agreed to any relationship where I will set up myself to “allowance”
When it’s not that you are working for me.
So I will then be including that in my monthly budget that I need to set aside one money for one girlfriend, like wtf.
It can’t be me.
Cause I see it as BS to me.
Stay informed, stay alive.
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
“These men saying they don’t give women money online still give women money offline.” 🤡🤡🤡
I hate when people deliberately miss the point just to sound clever. Nobody said there’s anything wrong with giving your woman money.
If you love your woman and have the means to take care of her, please spoil her. Nobody is complaining.
The issue is ENTITLEMENT. Stop acting like a man automatically owes you money simply because you have a vag!na.
A relationship is supposed to be a partnership where both people genuinely look out for each other, contribute, sacrifice and care about each other’s interests.
Your man giving you money because he loves you is beautiful but, you demanding it because you believe you’re entitled to it is a completely different conversation.
Learn the difference. 🫵🏾🫵🏾🫵🏾🫵🏾
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
I can't promise to fix all your problems ... but I can promise you won't have faced them all alone !!! 🩷💕
I actually wanted to say this online.
Someone would come at odd hours for routine drugs(HTN/DM).
Like you will wake me up for that by 2am and it won’t be funny.
I just could not get angry but had to attend.
We really have a long way to go here.
Stay informed, stay alive.
Btw:
In Australia, the doors of clinics close 5pm.
Anything doing you after that time,
go gats wait till next morning.
There is no Abeg Doctor.
If you go to the Emergency Dept at 12am,
You better have a good reason.
You’ll be triaged:
If mild, u go home or wait insane hours.
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Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
So let’s assess what you just did:
You want nigerian men to speak up for nigerian women who are being attacked for being money-driven transactional parasites, but you started by referring to the same nigerian men as “broke men” thereby confirming the exact thing they are saying that you are.
The foreigners are saying many of you are money-obsessed with no sense of values in life beyond money and you just confirmed that same stereotyping by broke-shaming the same nigerian men you hope will speak up, and making it seem like the worth of a man’s wallet determines the validity of his opinions.
The lack of actual self awareness and sensible self reflection is really quite simply so appalling and repulsive.
Broke men will forever remain slaves to validation. Men from other countries are openly disrespecting Nigerian women, and instead of standing up for women from your own country, you’re busy licking their boots for approval. Have you forgotten you have a mother, sisters, female friends and well wishers who are women? The desperation to impress foreigners by tarnishing the image of Nigerian women is pathetic. Some of you would sell your own dignity just to watch Nigerian women get disrespected. Absolutely shameful.
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
I have not seen any man who demanded 50/50 from his partner.
No man would look at his wife or partner and tell her to submit 50% of her income to the house NO I haven’t seen or heard.
They only allocate some bills to the wife especially light bills, water bills, and groceries shopping.
The man takes care of the rent, kids tuitions, car payments if there are any.
How is this 50/50?
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
October made it a year I stopped taking coke and fizzy drinks specifically.
How did I do it?
I had something to replace my cravings.
Would order 5litres of zobo and kunu for a week.
Had fruits at home most times
Yoghurt was another option
Tiger nut drink too.
And you’d always see me with water.
You can do it.
I’ll highlight all the negatives about it in a post soon.
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
Since we won't stay in this world forever,
Leave one Advice for the next Generation.?
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
I am a man that understands my role in marriage, I don’t need 50/50 I don’t even need 100/100 per se.
I just want your full commitment, and dedication to your marriage. You invest your all and I give you my all too.
You can’t thre@ten me with food, chores or anything you can think of, because.
I can cook, even better than most women.
Clean the house.
Bath and dress up an infant
Make money
A real definition of a full option.
Dear Kings, don’t be a 50:50 man. It should be 100:100 because that’s what real partnership means.
I’ve never and will never be a 50:50 man. It’s 100/100 for me or nothing. I put my money on the table and she does the same.
And you see house chores, you can’t threaten me with that. I can cook, clean, wash, go shopping 🛒, and even take care of a new born baby.
🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
That's totally correct doc. Na that peace of mind be the real deal ... The most important thing that we need, to keep it moving . Appreciate this one as always from you bami .. Have a lovely day ahead!!! teapawt.net/DrCEO_/status/21202878…
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Good health matters.
Stay informed, stay alive.
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
Men, I hope you see the memo 📋.
Unless you are earning between ₦1.5M-2.5M, you have no business dating a “Nigerian woman.”
But if I’m the one who tweeted “Nigerian Women” you’d see some e-clowns 🤡 telling me “don’t GeneRaLizE.”
Love is beautiful, but peace of mind is also part of the package.
So look for someone who gives you peace.
Goodnight 🌙
Stay informed, stay alive.
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
Same object. Different speed of light
When light passes from air into water, it slows down and bends. The higher the refractive index difference, the stronger the illusion
The video explains this…👇
Elijairu⚡️ retweeted
Cynthia: Chidi I am 2months pregnant
Chidi: It was only the tip and my withdrawal game is 100%
Me: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Antenatal in 12 weeks.