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Accept yourself to accept others. Love others to learn that love is always a gift. And realize it was never about worth. website: https://teapawt.net/t.co/jn6BWtKtwG

Joined September 2013
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Previous life goal: (still in progress) "Raise the quality of 'love' that people are willing to accept." New life goal: (in tandem) "Enable as many people as possible to enjoy being themselves."
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Ever since I saw Bicentennial Man I've loved finding excuses to refer to women as "Miss [name]." On at least one occasion it's been "Miss [Nickname]" But I don't do it unless I *really* like someone.
Replying to @mystic_rapture
how would you feel about "Miss Bentley"?
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Where on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs do you put "My 30 year old sister just called me because she couldn't sleep. SO I read to her for twenty minutes."
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You don't "deserve" love. Nobody "deserves" love. No amount of [TRAIT] and no matter how [ADJECTIVE] you are will compel anyone to love you. Some people will value you and act like it. Some people will value you and NOT act like it. Some people will not value you. That's in them.
A hill you’ll die on:
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The only things I *actually want* are time, affection, and connection. If I'm getting those regularly, I'm already in heaven and my birthday isn't special. If I'm *not* getting those regularly, getting them as a birthday social obligation feels forced and gross.
why are men always ok with doing nothing for their birthday?
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People keep acting like they gotta "justify" their feelings. Like feelings need "permission." No, babe, ACTIONS need permissions. Feelings tell you who you are. You don't gotta justify who you are. You gotta figure where [who you are] makes the world better. And GO THERE.
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It has come to my attention that I am uniquely suited to being the weird mystic that lives in a small cottage on the edge of a rich man's property. Unfortunately I would be unhappy unless I also had a wife. Or at least a cat.
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I believe that wanting a soft, warm, feminine presence that is only content when they are occupying at least one of your arms is the Platonic form of masculine yearning.
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I would call her "Athena" or "Faith" or "High Priestess Bloodclaw of the Whisker Kingdoms"
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Tell someone what you appreciate while you have the chance. Specific gratitude—“you listened without judging”—helps people know what mattered.
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French Fries. Chlorine. Coffee...
What smells good but isn’t perfume?
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Polo + Sweatervest
Fellow autists: what's your uniform? Mine's skinny jeans & a long-sleeve top
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Broke (and crass): I gotta take a shit Bespoke (and genteel): Pardon me, I must suffer some indignities of the flesh.
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How many peeps have you met in person from Twitter?
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This is not universally true. For example, my dream is to be so in love with my gf that the way I look at her makes other couples break up out of jealousy.
every man’s dream is to have a gf so hot that other men assume you’re either really rich or really funny
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yearning for a woman with toned arms and shapely calves. call that Limberence
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Because "dividends" aren't "interest" Stocks pay dividends (maybe), but most of the value in stocks lies in believing you can sell them for more than you bought them for, like with real estate. This scales with inflation.
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> be named Clive Staples > write prolifically > be friends with the guy who wrote Lord of the Rings > publicly praise his book > he dunks on you for putting Merlin in a Sci-Fi story > (everybody forgets about Merlin) > Put Santa in a story for children > get dunked again
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i still want to see someone do "make only mistakes"
Broke: “make no mistakes” prompt Woke: “find all mistakes” prompt
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There's like two women in the *world* who have seen me get as excited about running into them as I am when I encounter a stray cat while out on a walk.
There is something innately trustworthy about men who love cats
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People be like "I'm so empathic" and then utterly fail to imagine how other people are not them.
Neurotypical men: women have it easy Autistic men: autistic women have it easy Your lack of empathy for struggles you don't notice or care about isn't scientific evidence, guys
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