He’s not getting free rent in your head anymore. Most women make the same mistake after a man wastes their time. They try to make him pay. The 2am text. The post they know he’ll see. The “accidental” run-in. Every one of those moves costs you more time. Let’s do the math. 1 hour a day thinking about him = 365 hours a year. That’s 15 full days. Gone. He got 3 years while you were together. Now he’s getting 2 weeks a year from you after he left. And he’s not even asking for them. You’re not getting over him. You’re paying his bills. So I wrote the book I wish someone had handed me: How to Make a Man Who Wasted Your Time, Pay for Wasting Your Time. The title is petty on purpose. What’s inside isn’t. No slashed tires. No ruined reputations. No screenshots to his new girlfriend. You’ll learn something worth more than revenge(Check out the table of content below). Plus the 30-Day Payback Plan, one move a day, so you stop reading about your comeback and start living it. Payback that needs him to cooperate will never come. He may never apologize. He may never regret it. He may never even get it. Payback that only needs you can start today. You don’t need more time. You need a plan for the time you have left. Get the book here stan.store/emotionscity/p/ho… That’s less than one dinner you paid for while he “got his life together.”

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As a Founder, I have a responsibility to commit my clients unto the hands of God. They and their children will be preserved. They will not be consumed. They will not be destroyed. They will not be stranded. Lines will keep falling together for them in pleasant places. They will not bury their child.

Some men are dealing with paternity fraud, violent wives, and sexual starvation in marriage. Achalugo, there is no justification for paternity fraud, and violence. And if no one will tell you, I will. When we hold men responsible, we must hold women responsible too. If you need help processing difficult emotions in your relationship, please reach out to professionals. We can't keep hurting one another.

More than 55% of adults do not have a will.

Thank you for all you do, Collins 🩷.

I like how some people are now having threesomes in the name of the Lord. I am impressed by how creative we have become at sinning. We are now launching categories and sub-categories of iniquity with accent and poise. Well done, brethren. A letter from Apostle Paul will be delivered to your doorstep soon.

Forgiveness is not access.

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I walk on the treadmill for an hour daily. Incline is 15. Speed is between 2 & 3. Sometimes I walk backwards on it for about 20 minutes. I found walking backwards efficient too. I haven't studied how it helps the quads and all. But I like the idea of alternating between walking forward & backward.

Can you say sorry to your child?

Tonight's read. How to make a man who wasted your time pay for wasting your time. stan.store/emotionscity/p/ho…

I just remembered a random message I received from a married man who blamed me for his divorce a couple of years ago. According to him, he has always cheated on his wife and she forgave him. But when she started following me on Instagram "Her self-esteem increased". He also said that my posts taught her that "You can forgive, and not reconcile". His message ended with "I am a provider and providers should be allowed to cheat". I smiled and said a prayer for him & his wife. When you refuse to invest in emotional intelligence, you will blame everyone but yourself.