Scott Stewart is the Director of Engineering at SharkNinja, where he has multiple patents attributed to him. Jacqueline “Jax” Guelli is a 31 year old aesthetician who admits she was a "sugar baby" in her 20s. It's also been reported she was a mid-tier escort in Boston as well. They are look-matched and yet she was physically repulsed by Stew to the point she ran off the show and ghosted him. And now Stew is entertaining giving her another chance. Modern dating is cooked.

One day, I went on a fantastic date with a guy who was my height: 5'7". He mentioned that dating as a short guy was hard. I sympathized. Our next date, he told me that he'd met a girl off a dating app for coffee, and as soon as she saw him, she said, "You're too short," and RAN AWAY 😭 Our next date, he complained about his height. And the next. And the next. One day, in yet another rant, he said, "It's just so shallow! It'd be like if a guy refused to date girls with small boobs!" I, a small-boobed girl: 😐 "Wait, no," he said. "I didn't mean it like that." And I'm sure he didn't. But it doesn't matter. The point still stands: when your insecurity about yourself comes out as friendly fire at someone who actually likes you, you need to get over it. And even before that, I'd been annoyed. We dated for 4 months, so as he continued complaining, the message I received was simple: me liking him wasn't enough. What he wanted was the access to women other men had, and one girl liking him sure as hell didn't fix that!

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Riley Reid says her boyfriend could tell she had an anal scene scheduled just by what she ate for dinner; she quit gangbangs for him, and he then asked her to stop filming with men altogether. “My career started to pop off in the anal department, and that’s where his insecurities started.” “When you’re doing anal, you can’t eat certain foods.” “When I was just regularly working, he’d ask, ‘What do you want for dinner?’ and I’d say, ‘Whatever.’” “But when I had a special anal scene, I had to have this and this and this.” “When she’s not eating normal, that means she has anal the next day.” “I ended up quitting gangbangs for him.” “I gave him power.” “Then he was like, ‘Will you just quit doing boy-girl?’” “He wanted me to quit my job and everything.”

Yes it is bad. Unquestionably worse than before COVID especially. Wokism completely corrupted your average female's behavior & character, and the male "red pill" reaction to it has destroyed trust between the sexes. Status and looks matter far more than they did a decade ago, to the point where people are almost dehumanized if they don't have it. This is happening even apart from the growing transactionality trend in dating, because there's too much noise since the shift online; people use surface traits more and more just to sift through options. That said, guys are still meeting and attracting women all the time, and marriages are still happening amongst the muck. There is no reason to despair. You just can't really wing it as much anymore, like most people used to. The biggest trap IMO is not lack of knowledge about "what to do" anymore (which was the issue a decade ago) but lack of genuine ability to HUMANIZE the opposite sex I see far too much content on here that is left-brained, focused on generalizations about "how women are," the macro "dating market situation" - amplifying extreme (and sometimes fake) slop from bad actors who are trying to farm outrage. I am guilty of it at times as well, given I participate in the cultural discourse; to some extent it's impossible to avoid. But on a personal level, these hyper-logical assessments of womens' value, their past, their relationship viability etc. are a large part of what is making people both struggle with the opposite sex & become miserable with them Too many people today have simply lost their romanticism. They have lost their HEART That doesn't mean I'm encouraging guys to act as fools, as yes, unbalanced romanticism can cloud your perception of the woman in front of you. But the guys who love women, who enjoy their energy, who are still enchanted by their idiosyncrasies... these guys, no matter their position, give off vibes that women are drawn to like a moth to flame. In other words, I do not know ANY seducers, no matter how old and "washed up," who aren't pulling in record harvests... because women today are starved for men who can overcome their trust barriers and defense mechanisms (which are greater than ever) and SEE them. These men are indeed in far less supply than guys who are 6ft tall All of this is to say, while I don't think the craze towards looks and status is going to die any time soon, I also see diminishing returns setting in for guys trying to compete on these variables. They are "oversold" at this point, relative to other facets of attraction So I'd recommend a lot of guys in decent shape with put together lives focus more on learning how to like women and care about them, how to empathize - rather than get neurotic about whether another guy outclasses them in some material category - especially if they want something real and not just casual Men and women are both hurting, badly, as a result of this gender war The men who can transcend their bitterness and rediscover their warm and affection - the men who can even HEAL women's' wounds through their generous compassion (note: this must come with a strong sense of core-self and boundaries) - these men will only do better and better with women as the situation deteriorates Because while what they possess might be free, it's increasingly rare. And if you learn how to embody it, this "heart-centeredness" will not only help you with women, it will heal your soul

I swear, I try to be a good listener to my best friend. But sometimes he's making such egregious mistakes with women that it would be morally indefensible to NOT raise the alarm with him. Look bro, I can be supportive, but to an extent. Nowadays he just preempts me before I even say anything. He calls my dating advice "preaching." I swear some guys really just want to be lied to about women and bury their heads in the sand instead of confronting the harsh truths head-on. 🤷

‘My wife says I drink too much, my girlfriend says I don’t spend enough time with her, but my boys say I’m perfect.’ He was the perfect manager man😭

Success is guaranteed if you can avoid the pitfalls that most men fall into. Drugs, degeneracy, substance abuse/dependency, early fatherhood and unnecessary girlfriends too early at low SMV, sexual disease, isolation of self, not picking a purpose early enough. The list goes on

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summer 08 attended grad party with my friend + his gf the gf eventually vanished we couldn’t find her anywhere, host and others were helping us look Almost called police but we learned a pool party was happening down street we checked and found her there getting 3 guys at once