Foul-mouthed feminist, sigma馃毢, talker of shit & speaker of truth, empath, INFJ. Opinions=my own. See bio link to filter to my tweets. WOMEN VS GOP #RESIST
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Just to cling to a lie of a life you urgently built to cover me up while trying to level the innocent woman who trusted you and carried your child?
You know exactly what you鈥檙e still putting me through and you鈥檙e doing it on purpose. To keep selling your lies and their bullshit narrative. Despite the harm you know it is causing me. It鈥檚 the intentional infliction of emotional distress. For four years and counting.
The most selfish part is I鈥檝e already lost every single thing you could ever lose by doing the right thing and showing up like you swore you would. I lost it instead of you, for your mistakes. Not mine.
What do you have to lose? A ding to your ego? A fake image? A bad cover up of me? I can鈥檛 fucking mentally or emotionally function and haven鈥檛 been able to for four years. How selfish can you be? How cruel? How brutal? How corrupt? How abusive?
Men who put woman in trauma, distress, and pain and intentionally leave them there for punitive reasons or control should be registered sex offenders. It is domestic abuse.
He tried to ruin the life of a woman who already lost her only child for him when she did nothing but trust what he鈥檇 been telling her. He abandoned her by herself to be targeted for four years over things he knew weren鈥檛 true as he instantly covered her up with a rat her age.
Refusing to acknowledge the massive amount of harm and damage you did to an innocent person does not make that harm or damage go away. They still have to live with it, and you will still have to acknowledge it.
Refusing to acknowledge that someone existed to you and carried your child after covering them up with a rat their age does not erase the trail of your presence and the truth.
If you wanted the baby you didn鈥檛 want to stay a secret you should have shown me mercy at any point over the last four years when I was actively crying for your help. When I am still crying for your help.
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Withholding the sole remedy, comfort, or solution to relieve someone's pain鈥攅specially when you caused that pain鈥攊s known as emotional withholding, punitive withholding, or a form of coercive control and emotional abuse.
Key Concepts Behind This Behavior
鈥motional Withholding: The deliberate act of keeping back love, validation, answers, comfort, or the solution to a problem to create power, anxiety, or dependency.
鈥sing Comfort as a Reward: Treating basic reassurance, closure, or relief as a bargaining chip that the harmed person has to "earn" back through submission or compliance.
鈥tonewalling / The Silent Treatment: Refusing to communicate or provide the necessary information or empathy needed to resolve a conflict, leaving the other person stranded in distress.
鈥ntermittent Reinforcement / Dosing: Often tied to a cycle where the person who inflicted the harm alternates between cold withholding and sudden, selective affection, keeping the victim disoriented and hyper-focused on gaining relief from them.
