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On Sunday, November 8, a Ring doorbell camera reportedly captured a Virginia mother dropping off her three young children at their father's home two toddlers and a 1-year-old in a car seat. In the footage, she carries their bags to the porch, sets down the car seat and tells the children, "Tell your daddy to get you. Mommy's got a job interview tomorrow. I got sh*t to do, so stay right there." Then she walks away. Thank God for the father's aunt. She lives with him, saw the drop-off on her Ring app, and remotely unlocked the front door so the kids could get inside. They were reportedly alone for about 20 minutes before their father arrived. The family says the parents had recently separated and had no custody agreement in place. Police were called. CPS was notified. Officers reportedly spoke with the mother and let her leave. No charges have been reported. I get it, breakups are messy. Being a single parent is exhausting. Job interviews matter. Life gets overwhelming. But you don't leave a 1-year-old in a car seat on a porch and walk off. Those babies didn't choose this separation. They didn't choose the fight between mom and dad. They just needed an adult to stay until the other adult was actually there. 20 minutes is a long time when you're 1, 2, and 3 years old. Anything could have happened. A stranger, a dog, a fall, the cold — anything. If I were the dad, I'd be furious and heartbroken at the same time. If I were the aunt, I'd never stop checking that camera. How would you handle this if this was your family? Because to me, this isn't about mom vs dad. It's about three little kids who deserved better than being left on a porch like bags of groceries.