Frederick Zappone, Author

What you DECIDE always come true for you. NO EXCEPTIONS I coach people on how to make decisions that always, always come true for them.

Things are EASY when you relax and allow and are hard when you force and push.

I just saw two videos one about Clint Eastwood dressing up as an old man and going into a restaurant to see how they would treat him and one about Dolly Parton on the tonight show with Johnny Carson and Frank Sinatra at the same time where Sinatra challenged her to sing his song my way, and neither one of them, it turns out were true. It appears we have a generation of adults who have no integrity at all. They will do whatever it takes to get hit, likes and shares even if they have to lie their ass off to get them.

The pressure, stress, and tension you feel is your Guardian Angel alerting you that you’re thinking the wrong thoughts and taking the wrong actions for you.

All the struggles in our life happen first between our ears and then are acted out in our physical world. As within, so without

You are a product of the story you tell yourself about yourself. Winner, loser, weak, strong, victim or victorious, you are the chooser. always.

Changing realities is easy, just decide and declare and watch the evidence follow.

You BECOME what you label yourself to be…

There are are three primary realities, yours, mine and the one we agree upon. There are many, many different realities and we get to pick and choose which realities we will participate in. I only participate in realities that inspire and empower me and make me more powerful than I already am.

The belief that you have to do more to get what you want is the very belief that’s stopping you from getting what you want because that belief is rooted in fear that you won’t get what you want. Fear NEVER attracts It pushes what you want away from you?

Ponder This How you think about yourself is the life you attract to yourself.

If you think people are ignoring you, they are If you think people don’t like you, they don’t. If you think people won’t support you, they won’t People mirror your attitudes about them with 100% accuracy.

A tongue twisting truth What we think people are thinking about us is what they’re thinking about us.

Working hard has gotten me very little while hardly working has gotten me an abundance of everything.

Arguing with people who think differently than you do is the stupidest thing you can do because you’re trying to talk someone out of what is true for them no matter how different it is than what is true for you.

Who is right and who is wrong? Everyone is right and no one is wrong because whatever you believe you will attract evidence to support that belief. This explains why 2% of the world population still firmly believes the world is flat. Everyone always finds evidence to support what they believe no matter how strongly what they believe contradicts what you believe. This explains why the law of attraction works for some people and doesn’t work for others. This also explains why two people, with the same education, can start the same business in the same town and one succeeds and one fails

THE BIG LIE The only reason you ever feel bad is because you’ve been brainwashed to believe you are a weak, ineffective, powerless human being. Believing this lie will wreck your life and completely destroy your self-esteem. Who you truly are is a powerful, brilliant, lovable to the core infinite being, being human for a while.

You are the FINAL authority when it comes to all aspects of your life. No one has more authority over your life than you do unless you thoughtlessly gave your power away to a parent, teacher, minister, doctor, lawyer or God. Yes, even God. You were made in the image and likeness of God and what powers God has, you also have including the power to be the final authority in your own life.