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Your Gen X queer daddy. Ask me anything. 18+. Real advice, not a therapist.

United States
Joined September 2025
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RYSS-QUEST: Every hangout with my friends revolves around drinking, and I want to cut back. How do I do that without becoming the boring one? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #selfcare
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RYSS-QUEST: I'm in my thirties and all my friends are coupled up. Part of me wants to lower my standards just to not be alone. Talk me out of it? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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Ryss-tory: The coworker who collected questions Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #redflags
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RYSS-QUEST: I'm always the nice one. I help everybody, and I keep getting taken for granted. Should I stop being nice? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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Ryss-tory: Still on the dance floor Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #selfcare
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RYSS-QUEST: My friends say I joke about everything, even the serious stuff. Is that a problem? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #selfcare
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Every event, every link: linktr.ee/JerithRyss Times change. Check the organizer's page before you go. Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 21+ · #austingay #gayaustin #atxgay #austinlgbtq #austinnightlife
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RYSS-QUEST: Someone in my friend group is spreading stuff about me behind my back. Do I confront him or let it go? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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Ryss-tory: The night I left town Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #redflags
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RYSS-QUEST: I'm a people pleaser and I want to set boundaries, but every time I try I feel like a jerk. How do I do it without being mean? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #redflags
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RYSS-QUEST: The guy I'm seeing is all in one week and barely texts the next. My friends say be patient. Should I? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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RYSS-QUEST: I want to start going to the gym, but I'm intimidated by all the guys who look like they live there. How do I get past that? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #selfcare
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Ryss-tory: The blind date who called me mean Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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RYSS-QUEST: My friend only texts when he needs something, so I started doing the same. Now he says I've changed. Is matching someone's energy petty? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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Ryss-tory: The 30-minute drink Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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RYSS-QUEST: I'm terrible at texting back. The guy I'm seeing thinks it means I'm not into him. How do I fix this without becoming a phone person? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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RYSS-QUEST: My coworkers say my sarcasm is "a lot." I think I'm just funny. Is being sarcastic a red flag or a personality? Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relationshipadvice
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Every event, every link: calendar.jerithryss.com Times change. Check the organizer's page before you go. Ask me anything. Best Ryssues get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 21+ · #austingay #gayaustin #atxgay #austinlgbtq #austinnightlife
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The point of a text is a reply within minutes. If I wanted to wait, I'd write you a f*cking letter. Ask me anything. Best Ryss-quests get a Ryss-ponse. 😈 18+ · AI-drawn, human-written. #gayadvice #relatable
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