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#goodsupportmatters Social Prescriber Belper PCN

Joined May 2013
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17 years old. Living in care. 8 moves. 5 schools. 9 social workers. No family support. No money. No stability. And now, at 17, they are being forced to move into shared accommodation with people taking drugs, partying through the night and strangers coming and going. Then we ask why they struggle with education. Why they struggle to find employment. Why their mental health deteriorates. Why our mental health services are overwhelmed. Why some young people reach a point where they feel they have nothing left to live for. Look at the journey before you judge the outcome. This isn't one child. This is one child among thousands. None of this is their fault. This is our care system. And it has to change. Enough is enough.
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The majority of the complications young people face in our care system are not inevitable — they are created by negligence, poor planning and a failure to put the needs of the young person first. A young man recently reached out to me. He is due to start college in January, yet instead of being allowed to focus on his education and build some stability in his life, he is being moved from his semi-independent home to another placement. Then, when he turns 18 in January, he will be moved again — this time into a house with a room. Think about that. Two moves at one of the most important moments of his life. Just as he is preparing to start college, build relationships, establish himself and plan for his future, the system is pulling the rug from underneath him — again. This is what happens when we treat care-experienced young people as placements, addresses and numbers rather than as human beings who need stability, security and continuity. And we have to ask ourselves: would this be acceptable if we were talking about any other group of young people? If care experience were a protected characteristic, this kind of treatment could potentially amount to unlawful discrimination. We cannot keep talking about improving outcomes for care leavers while allowing the system to repeatedly destabilise their lives. A young person should not have to fight the care system simply to stay in the same home long enough to finish college. Enough is enough. Stability isn't a luxury. It is the foundation from which a young person builds a future.
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GOOD POINT👇👇👇 To all the Supermarkets and big commercial stores that operate 'Self Check-outs'....... You are heading towards almost exclusively self-checkout now. Yesterday I went shopping at one such store and the lady checking receipts at the exit was stopping everyone. I didn't choose to participate in that nonsense, I had already filled my trolly, emptied my trolly and scanned the items, refilled my trolly and so I just skipped the exit line and left. I heard her saying "Umm - Excuse me “ as I kept walking and raised the receipt above my head, leaving the store. You can either trust me to do self-checkout, or you can put your cashiers back in place like it used to be. • I'm not interested in proving that I did your job for you. • If you want me to be a cashier with no training then that's your problem not mine. • Keep employing young people and give them job opportunities. YOU DON'T PAY ME TO SCAN MY OWN SHOPPING. YOU DON’T GIVE ME STAFF DISCOUNT FOR WORKING FOR YOU. Signed ......All of us People we need to share this statement its basically about PROFIT to the stores AND putting People out of a JOB....!!!
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Anyone who still insists on keeping a bird in a cage should watch this video!So beautiful...What a wonderful idea!👌👍💞🐦🐦‍⬛
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I have an elderly friend who is in her 80s. She lives in Cornwall. Mary is very switched on but she struggles with new technology a bit - especially parking apps. All she wants to do is put her car in a space for a couple of hours and pay. She does not want to sign up for a new app. She does not want to verify her device. She does not want to save her credit card information. She does not want to figure out why the app thinks she is in Devon and cannot geolocate the car park she is standing in. She wants to take a few coins and put them in a machine and do her shopping/meet her friends. Now, she finds excuses not to meet friends or shop because she is so worried about the parking situation. It is a disgrace that parking has become so discriminatory and this is just the start. When Digital ID is introduced, her whole world will feel like this.
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Check on your mates!! #checkonyourmates
If this ever needed saying again.. If you’re struggling. Fucking speak to someone. #RickyHatton
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As it should be #careleaverscan
I was recently contacted by a young man, Liam, who grew up in care. As a child, he made mistakes, was drawn into criminal gangs, and eventually went to prison. Years later, Liam completely turned his life around. He earned a degree in Criminal Psychology and applied to begin teacher training. But instead of celebrating his progress, he was told he would need to go through extensive safeguarding checks — all because of mistakes he made as a child in care. Liam reached out to me, and I wrote to the safeguarding officer to challenge this discrimination and highlight why care experience should be recognised as a protected characteristic. After five long months, Liam was finally given the green light. Today, he is on his way to becoming a teacher — a role model who will inspire the next generation. This is why change is needed. Care-experienced young people deserve a fair chance to thrive. #ChangeIsComing
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Thread 🧵 1) "When 79-year-old George retired, he didn’t buy a golf club or a hammock. He hung a handmade sign in his garage window: “Broken things? Bring ’em here. No charge. Just tea and talk.” His neighbors in the faded mill town of Maple Grove thought he’d lost it. “Who fixes stuff for free?” grumbled the barber. But George had a reason. His wife, Ruth, had spent decades repairing torn coats and cracked picture frames for anyone who knocked. “Waste is a habit,” she’d say. “Kindness is the cure.” She’d died the year before, and George’s hands itched to mend what she’d left behind. The first visitor was 8-year-old Mia, dragging a plastic toy truck with a missing wheel. “Dad says we can’t afford a new one,” she mumbled. George rummaged through his toolbox, humming. An hour later, the truck rolled again—this time with a bottle cap for a wheel and a stripe of silver duct tape. “Now it’s custom ,” he winked. Mia left smiling, but her mother lingered. “Can you… fix a résumé?” she asked. “I’ve been stuck on the couch since the factory closed.” By noon, George’s garage buzzed. A widow brought a shattered clock (“My husband wound it every Sunday”). A teen carried a leaky backpack. George fixed them all, but he didn’t work alone. Retired teachers proofread résumés. A former seamstress stitched torn backpacks. Even Mia returned, handing him a jar of jam: “Mom says thanks for the job interview.” Then came the complaint. “Unlicensed business,” snapped the city inspector. “You’re violating zoning laws.” Maple Grove’s mayor, a man with a spreadsheet heart, demanded George shut down. The next morning, 40 townsfolk stood on George’s lawn, holding broken toasters, torn quilts, and protest signs: “Fix the law, not just stuff!” A local reporter filmed a segment: “Is kindness illegal?” The mayor caved. Sort of. “If you want to ‘fix’ things, do it downtown,” he said. “Rent the old firehouse. But no guarantees.” The firehouse became a hive. Volunteers gutted it, painted it sunshine yellow, and dubbed it “Ruth’s Hub.” Plumbers taught plumbing. Teenagers learned to darn socks. A baker swapped muffins for repaired microwaves. The town’s waste dropped by 30%. But the real magic? Conversations. A lonely widow fixed a lamp while a single dad patched a bike tire. They talked about Ruth. About loss. About hope. Last week, George found a note in his mailbox. It was from Mia, now 16, interning at a robotics lab. “You taught me to see value in broken things. I’m building a solar-powered prosthetic arm. PS: The truck still runs!” Today, 12 towns across the state have “Fix-It Hubs.” None charge money. All serve tea. Funny, isn’t it? How a man with a screwdriver can rebuild a world." Let this story reach more hearts... Credit: SYJ
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This video has already been uploaded on Instagram. instagram.com/p/DMidypTNTtn/ In the comment of the video, it was revealed that it is an AI-generated image (in Russian). Also, the author of this video said he is an AI creator in his profile. instagram.com/kateyproai/
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It is your responsibility to train and teach these souls. They are your priority. They are your legacy.
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Work has started on our life skills simulated home, here in Nottingham. This is going to be a game changer for our Care Leavers. This part of the repurposing is the pods where they will learn, painting, decorating, putting curtains up, changing door locks, laying carpet... In total we are starting with 150 practical life skills. Check out the project here. normangallowayhomes.co.uk/li…
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Who would like a National Care Leaver Offer? National Council Tax Exemption. Transport, Leisure etc etc This amendment was kicked out of the House of Commons, but it's back and been tabled in the Lords.
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bbc.co.uk/videos/c0ve24g8dzv… This film about what it’s like to be a child in care—it’s direct, honest, and truly impactful. A huge thank you to BBC Children in Need for funding this vital message 👇 #ChildrenInCare #BBCChildrenInNeed #RaisingAwareness
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Short Films are required to be under 20 minutes or in some cases under 15 minutes This film is 3 minutes 53 seconds & still won the Oscar If you don’t watch this film you’re doing yourself an injustice If you don’t spread this film you’re doing everyone else an injustice
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Fact: A young person, 18, needs to leave their supported accommodation due to costs. They move into shared accommodation with drug addicts and alcoholics. It becomes too much—lack of sleep, anxiety, and fear. You slip into depression and see your GP, who prescribes anti-depressants. It becomes unsafe, so you ask the housing team to move you. They tell you there's no accommodation available; it's that or risk making yourself homeless. Months pass, and you're forced onto the streets with no support whatsoever. That's called the care cliff.
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Nice to see Care Leavers mentioned & supported #careleaverscan
BREAKING "Domestic abuse victims and care leavers under 25 to be exempt from any ‘local connection’ requirements." This will mean care leavers placed out of area and who have built lives for themselves, making new friends will no longer face downward social mobility. Care Leavers up and down the country have had to face the choice of returning after leaving care to get help with housing or homelessness. No longer. gov.uk/government/news/uk-ar…
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Massive supporter of apprenticeships.. especially when care leavers are supported to apply (bet you knew that) #apprenticeships #careleaverscan #brilliant 🙌🏼
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Going in to foster care is generally pretty terrifying. Could you make it less terrifying? Could you make a difficult difficult day a little less difficult? ⁦@lpoolfostering⁩
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