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i genuinely wish i had the self control to take a break from this hell app, because now there's bpd discourse going around and its a fucking triggering nightmare as someone who has bpd. no i can't "control my thoughts" during a split what the fuck are you talking about.
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"i'm going to be dismissive and cruel to this mentally ill person and shame them when they're at their lowest and express judgemental disgust at the ugliness of their symptoms without any empathy" this is genuinely how ya'll be moving. disgusting doesn't even begin to cover it
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i think most people don't understand (or bother to understand) mental illness cause they think it can be easily self-regulated/managed with medication and therapy. ofc, the goal + hope is to get better but the way some of ya'll treat someone suffering makes things worse for them
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I will always suggest people get a therapist and medication asap but it really doesn't hurt to have a strong support system too. the way ppl will ignore you during a breakdown or outright compare your conditions to laude themselves on their own "self control" is gross
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the crazy thing about BPD is how you'd think you could rely on other people with it, but split in front of them one (1) time and suddenly it's all about how they manage their symptoms better and don't make "excuses" without ever considering that some people's is more severe
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the way people call it suicide baiting is so evil, from first hand experience i know they meant it at least in the moment!!
non bpd people just cannot comprehend how feeling rejected by your entire friend group feels, if it sucks for you it’s 100 times worse for us
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Actively ignoring someone who is in mental health crisis is one of the cruelest things you can do
If you do this to anyone, you’re dead to me
Crisis time isn’t the time to teach social lessons and do your little soapboxing
People really don’t fucking get it until someone dies
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i get its exhausting for the ppl dealing w this persons bpd but like, idk there are 20 better ways to act than actively ignore someone whos going through an episode like that where they are screaming and begging for any kind of support or just to be seen/heard. its depressing
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I’ve always been an advocate of not fucking around with being close to disabled people if you yourself are too fragile to handle what that means. Leave pwBPD the fuck alone, you are in the wrong for putting them in this position. You are the one with power here.
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Sorry your BPD friend in crisis made you feel icky. Sorry they’re in crisis so often. I’m sorry it’s sooooo burdensome to YOU. BPD is a disorder so severe there are places that recommend assisted suicide as the only treatment. Suck it up.
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I have no sympathy for people who treat BPD as just “the manipulator disorder” and act like pwBPD are just people who struggle with selfishness and need to Get Over It
im starting to believe a lot of you dont actually know what "suibaiting" is





















