Kathryn Paul • Writer of Love Stories (she/her)

--What Matters?-- My name is always different. Today I feel like a soaked lorikeet hiding in the leaves. Sometimes I am an expert. Sometimes I am a beginner. But always I am searching. I ask the world, "What matters?" And the answer is a soaked lorikeet hiding in the leaves.

You can be anything you want to be is a lie. Since I was 4-years old, I wanted to be a professional ballerina. But puberty had other ideas. My dreams didn't come true. Was I crushed? Yes. Am I still crushed? No. Now I know life is choices + chaos,… instagr.am/p/CrPflhCs2M5/

What time should I arrive at my wedding ceremony? - If you are the person waiting at the top of the aisle, you should aim to be at the ceremony location at least 15 minutes before the ceremony starts. - If you are walking down the aisle, aim to arrive … instagr.am/p/CrKKhXAOHoG/

Recently, I've been thinking about my amazing Aunty Melva. She was my dad's oldest sister, lived in Rotorua in NZ, and was married to my favourite Uncle Jack. This photo was taken at Lake Taupo in the late 60's. That pipe in her mouth? She's not bein… instagr.am/p/Cq9DW3YNUQ1/

As beautiful as it is, Australian weather can be unpredictable. And it's not just rain, there's heat, storms and even bushfires that can interrupt your outdoor wedding ceremony. But typically, it's the rain or the heat that makes an outdoor wedding c… instagr.am/p/Cq6knJ-unuQ/

Lachie + Nini "I promise to let you always have the first bite of the pizza and let you eat the last dumpling." Venue: @pasadenasydney Celebrant: @KathrynPaulCelebrant #NorthernBeachesWedding #MarriageCelebrant #SydneyCelebrant #SydneyMarriageCelebra… instagr.am/p/CqyuNvFrJwZ/

Even though Lachie and Nini were born two weeks apart and grew up in Sydney with a similar circle of friends, it took a dating app to bring them together. Once they met and realised they both had the same chickenpox scar on their foreheads, they knew be… instagr.am/p/CqwGoVxBZ0x/

Planning an outdoor wedding? Don't forget to create a backup plan. While we all hope for perfect weather on the big day, it's important to prepare for the unexpected. Consider renting a marquee or an indoor space nearby, just in case mother nature decide… instagr.am/p/CqMPHyhOiAW/

When you invite kids to be part of your wedding you need to know one thing. → The only job your little one has is TO BE CUTE and that's it! They might not do what you say, they might get bored, shy, or fed up, but guess what? That's perfectly OK. L… instagr.am/p/CqJjdbBOcUc/

--- Make it a Family Affair --- Having children involved in your wedding ceremony can bring a lot of fun and a lot of meaning to your special day. This is why having kids in your ceremony can be a great idea: 1. Creates lasting memories for both you an… instagr.am/p/CqG3zK1jMI4/

Emma + Harish Pure joy ♥ #KathrynPaulCelebrant #NorthernBeachesCelebrant #NorthernBeachesWedding #MarriageCelebrant #SydneyCelebrant #EngagedSydney #SydneyMarriageCelebrant #SydneyMarriageCeremony instagr.am/p/CqEMI5VPSq2/

Who says you shouldn't mix business with pleasure? Emma and Harish met at work and now they're getting married! These two are affectionate, fun loving, and are very particular about deadlines — Emma wanted to be engaged before her birthday and Harish ma… instagr.am/p/CqBgeanDLpW/

Jesper + Florence + Station Beach This is how you do a beach elopement at Palm Beach: - on Pittwater side - early in the morning - marquee on the grass (for shade) - short dress and sandals - lunch at Dunes PERFECT ♥ #KathrynPaulCelebrant #NorthenBe… instagr.am/p/Cp-00Q0vhq8/

Jesper, the charming Swede, and Florence, the lovely Londoner have been together for a decade and are now making it official. I can't wait to see them exchange vows and start a new chapter in their lives. Here's to a lifetime of love, adventure and maybe… instagr.am/p/Cp6NjiFNtPK/

Newlyweds, here's a tip to ensure you get to spend some quality time with your partner on your big day! Ask your DJ to play one of your favorite songs each hour and when you hear it, meet your partner on the side of the dance floor for a dance together… instagr.am/p/Cp3h5VlvcQV/

It’s always a lot of fun to have kids participate in your wedding ceremony. Here are a few traditional and unusual ways to get them involved. • Flower person - A child who walks down the aisle before the nearlywed and scatters flower petals. • Ring … instagr.am/p/Cp02PAUPz-C/

--- WHY INCLUDE YOUR PARENTS IN YOUR WEDDING --- Including your parents in your wedding day is a significant gesture of appreciation for their role in your life. It's a chance to express your gratitude and acknowledge their unwavering support, encourage… instagr.am/p/CpyKknOr8fl/

Involving your parents in your wedding can be a beautiful way to honour your family and make your special day even more meaningful. Here are some tips to help you incorporate your parents in your modern wedding: 1. Discuss your plans: Have an open and h… instagr.am/p/Cpve6UCrCmE/

You don't need to spend a lot of money decorating your ceremony space when you have an amazing view. Oli & Nat chose this beautiful arch for their Simple Pleasures wedding — the perfect frame for them to exchange their vows in front of their family and f… instagr.am/p/CptK8gPOfHN/