One thing Iāll always stand by is that getting your fitness goals should not be making you miserable
Myself, my husband and my friend Liz proved this, this month!
Mike and I have been in Orlando for the last month and we've navigated getting that balance.
We were able to progress with fitness goals whilst living in hotels, going to different gyms, visiting different parks and eating fun food.
Our friend Liz joined us for a week and we went BIG on socialising, but we also trained regularly- she returned home and hit a PB on her bench press the next day!
I donāt know why thereās this misconception that getting fit needs to feel painfully difficult and require silly amounts of discipline.
It doesnāt. You can get fit and enjoy it.
That means:
- Not heavily restricting
- Not sacrificing your life
- Not feeling guilty for living
On top of those not being healthy, they make it miserable.
And you wonāt stick to things that are miserable
I still go to social events, eat out and have a drink every now and again (more so over the last 4 weeks...)
I train 4 x a week and my gym sessions usually last an hour because I'm busy with work, dogs and life so don't want to spend longer in the gym.
I donāt just help people to āget their fitness goalsā
I help them get them whilst enjoying the process, still having a life, and feeling good Iām themselves whilst doing it
If thatās what youāre looking for, itās exactly what I post about so follow me!
One of the best things I've ever done is getting comfortable with not matching societies standards for a woman
It's no secret that social media and the fitness industry glamourises the "skinny look"
And I tried it.
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Absolutely not
My biggest focus now? Feeling healthy and strong in myself Enjoying my training and eating
Maintaining a social life too
The result?
Work/ life balance in full swing.
In Florida for a month working remotely whilst also enjoying ourselves
Hey, I'm Kat. If you havenāt seen me before hereās 10 things that sum up what kind of fitness coach I am:
1. I drink alcohol and Iāll never tell you to fully stop
2. Clients donāt have to be worried about missing a session or cutting it short if something comes up. Thatās life
3. 10,000 steps a day is likely unrealistic for most people over 40+ with full time desk jobs and other responsibilities
4. My body is kind of broken from Rugby - but I make fitness work for me and Iāll do that for you too
5. I love getting stronger, and watching other people over 40+ do it too, despite them doubting they can to begin with
6. I think training in your 40ās is different from training in your 20ās and understanding that will give you an advantage
7. None of my clients track food from day 1 - we focus on education and accountability first
8. I donāt love cooking and refuse to spend hours in the kitchen - much prefer efficient ways to enjoy food and fuel properly
9. My focus is never to get the fastest results possible. Itās to get them in the best way possible - so you enjoy it, feel good and gain confidence
10. Fitness is my job and passion but not my whole life. I like going out, enjoying food, travelling - both can coexist!
P.s - mine and my teams coaching has a 9/10 rating
P.s.s - And weāve had over 700 amazing transformations
If I sound like the type of coach for you, make sure to follow to stick around
Stop āstarting again Mondayā once and for all!
When you have a high responsibility desk job and a family, your nutrition choices should be easy and not a chore.
Iāve put together a guide that will make the process easy and realistic for you.
I can send you a copy follow me and comment āfit foodā on this video
Fitness isnāt meant to be all or nothing.
Being 100% on it for 100% of the time is unrealistic.
Do a lot of good things, a lot of the time (not all) and youāll make better progress
Here's a piece of fitness advice you won't get off a lot of personal trainers:
Focus on how you feel, as much as how you look.
These days, it's easy to only focus on your appearance.
And listen, having physical goals is great. Bigger quads, a stronger back, less fat, there's nothing wrong with them.
But if you solely focus on what you see in the mirror you risk forgetting the bigger picture-
Are you enjoying it?
Are you more confident?
Are you trying new things?
Are you staying consistent?
Do you feel more energised?
Are you prioritising yourself?
The internal improvements are some of the best fitness will ever give you.
And you've probably got more things to be proud of yourself for than you think.
Over 40 with a desk job and want to drop fat and build muscle?
You need my new guide 'the over 40's fat loss eating guide'
Comment 'Fitfood' and I'll send you a copy
We got married on Jurassic River Adventure ride (yes really) 1 year ago today.
How are we celebrating?
We are back in Orlando of course.
We decided to come over here for a month.
Still running our business, still visiting various awesome gyms and still visiting parks and drinking cocktails.
The dogs are with one of my best mates living their best life.
You could say we arenāt conventional but I think we are doing life exactly the way that suits us.
Happy Saturday, we are off to Epic Universe for some Harry Potter cocktails
Working 12+ hour days doesnāt make you more successful.
It often makes you less productive.
I get it, Iāve been there, answering work emails at 11pm, skipping workouts because I was ātoo busyā.
Was I better at my job for doing that? Absolutely not. I was tired, my enthusiasm was low and wasnāt producing my best work.
I quickly realised that by setting boundaries and protecting my workout time I was more energised and productive.
Work life balance shouldnāt be token.
Thatās why Iām writing this from Hogās head in Orlando. Work done for the morning, now time to chill
Ladies if you ever needed a reason to lift- here you go šš»
This wasnāt an isolated comment either. Others piled in saying I was a man hating lesbian and too lean to be able to have children etc etc.
Trust me John- (and other John like people)- I do not spend hours in the gym to be sexually attractive to random strangers on the internet.
I train for my physical and mental health and I LOVE feeling strong.
I also love that most the women who come to us for coaching are interested in getting stronger and feeling better to!
Oh and the comment was on a post about how to build muscle- so Johns preferences (or anyone elseās) are not relevant-
There are 2 options-
1. You want to build muscle so you read the post.
2. You Donāt want to build muscle? Scroll on.
You donāt comment about your sexual preferences.
So I wonāt be cancelling my gym membershipā¦
Iām 40 years old now and confident in my body but itās not been a straightforward journey:
ā As a child I was always naturally athletic, I had abs, was strong and fast.
ā In fact, I was as strong as the boys in my class at first school. Unfortunately I didnāt think this was cool. I thought it meant I was heavy as girls were āsupposed to be smallā which led to disordered eating in my teens.
ā I joined Rugby when I was 14, fell in love instantly and knew I wanted to play for England
ā Trained hard, joined the team and won the world cup in 2014
ā Medically retired from rugby due to concussions, and almost instantly I wanted to get rid of my muscle mass to look āmore feminineā.
ā Lost my identity, stopped fuelling properly and lost confidence in my body. Dropped a lot of weight and muscle.
ā Met my now husband, and fell back in love with lifting. Re learned that strong is better than skinny and found my passion for training again
ā Now I train consistently (and love it!) In probably the best shape of my life (even if I do get troll comments)
I know body image is complicated which is why I share my journey.
I want to show young girls that being is cool and not something to be embarrassed about.
Strength training and fuelling properly completely changed my life for the better.
So if youāve been thinking about getting strong- do it!














