KENECHUKWU

That elderly man should go and sit down. Virginity is a reliable predictor of the absence or presence of 'other qualities.' If you want femine warmth, you are far more likely to find it in a woman who has not been with other men. One whose femininity has not been compromised and debased by multiple sexual partners, and the baggage that comes with them. If you want a faithful woman, you are far more likely to get it a with a woman who values her body enough to preserve it despite unrelenting peer and cultural pressure to do otherwise.  A woman who goes against what is at this point, consensus, demonstrates superior self command and autonomy that most women do not have.  So it makes sense that such a woman who has remained unspoiled (well into her prime) would be a much safer bet for faithfulness than who who has 4 ex's, 6 FWB's and 11 hookups - especially when we remember that those are placeholder numbers that have to be multiplied by 3 to get the actual figures. Same thing with teachability. If you want a woman whose character you can develop to your own liking your best bet is with one who has not spent years being sexually and romantically shaped by Pablo and Odogwu spender because she has fewer established patterns to unlearn, fewer comparisons to make, fewer ideas about relationships formed through previous partners and less baggage. Every 'other quality' a man wants in a woman, he is far more likely to get in a woman who has kept herself than in one who has not. And that is what makes virginity the singular most important quality a woman can have.  It is not just another quality, it is a meta quality because preserving virginity typically requires the 'other qualities' that men want in women like restraint, modesty, self respect and the  will to reject immediate gratification. Which is why you will see a billion non virgins shaking ass on tiktok and showing cleavage in asoebi before you see one virgin do it. Virginity, especially that which exists well into a woman's prime, is thus, not simply the lack of sexual experience but evidence of 'good character' 9/10 times. But 'good character' like all good things, isn't set in stone. It can go bad if a virgin suffers the  cosmic tragedy of ending up with a weak man in much the same a precocious child with good home training who gets all A's, can become bad and end up a failure if he gets influenced by the wrong crowd. So wherever you find virginity, you will almost always find the other qualities you're looking for or have an easy time cultivating them IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING Because whilst virginity provides a high floor, it is the man a virgin ends up with that will determine her ceiling. To concretise that abstraction, being with a woman you met a virgin is like being given high quality iron. The iron is material and material does not forge itself. So you still have to be a competent blacksmith to take advantage of the excellent iron and forge something even more remarkable. Most men today, are mediocre blacksmiths so when tragedy strikes and they are handed rare excellent iron, they create an even bigger tragedy and forge a mediocre blade. Then the society that is already anti high quality iron because most of them can't find it, end up blaming the iron instead of the blacksmith. "Good iron does not gUaRaNtEe good blade...skr skr"  I mean, it makes sense why women would make defensive arguments like that. I get it. Women who have *LOST* their virginity have an incentive  to discredit it because if they can convince themselves with a post hoc rationalisation that virginity has no value then losing it means nothing. when you cannot have something contempt is an excellent substitute for acquisition - Law 36 It is a comforting delusion but what is a woman without her delusions? So I expect women to do it. The part I find laughable (although not surprising at all) is seeing 'elderly men' do it and grown men echo them...