Big Kay

There is a special kind of pain in having so much love to give but not having the financial capacity to express it the way you want to. 💔 One of the worst feelings in life is having people you love, people who depend on you, and people you would do anything for, but finding yourself in a position where you cannot help them financially. You keep making plans in your head, hoping that one day you will hit money and finally give your mum, dad, siblings and partner the kind of life you have always dreamed of giving them. You imagine the businesses you would set up for them, the bills you would take off their shoulders, the problems you would solve, and the lives you would change. You genuinely want to do all these things, but the money just isn't coming. Everything remains in your head. Your intentions are real, but your pocket cannot back them up. Years keep passing, the people you love keep getting older, and you keep watching opportunities to make their lives better slip away. You become frustrated because you desperately want to do more for the people who mean everything to you, and you simply cannot afford to.

B is my ideal body type for a woman. I just wish her boobs were as big as E’s. Basically, this exact body type with bigger boobs. I can still go for E for sex or a non-committed relationship. Women with that body type are usually the sweetest in bed. I love boobs, and she has them. She is also likely to be a creamer.

That being said, the best way to eat a pussy is from behind. Get her into a collapsed doggy-style position and place a pillow under her, close to her chest, so her breasts rest on it and she has better balance. From time to time, she can reach back with one hand to help you lift one of her butt cheeks for better access. Then, proceed to have a field day. Bury your face in there and eat the hell out of her. Use your middle finger to finger her while curling it into a hook-like shape.

I have written about this before. One thing every adult must learn is how to say no when necessary without feeling guilty about it. Stop agreeing to things you genuinely do not want to do simply because you are afraid of disappointing people. You cannot keep sacrificing your comfort, time, resources and peace of mind just to make others happy. You are allowed to have limits, and you do not owe everyone an explanation for every decision you make. Learn to speak up when you cannot help, when you are uncomfortable with something or when you simply do not want to be involved. It is better to say no from the beginning than to agree reluctantly and start complaining later. Saying no when necessary is not selfishness. It is maturity, accountability and one of the most effective ways to establish clear boundaries.

Many guys find it difficult to move on from a relationship simply because they have invested a lot financially in the girl. They even forgive their cheating girlfriends or stay with a girl who they keep begging to behave properly simply because they don’t know how to count their losses and move on. This is why I always tell men to only invest in women what they can genuinely afford to lose. Don’t go doing things for a girl with the hope that it will secure her loyalty. Always ask yourself, if this girl cheats on me or misbehaves, after everything I have done for her, will I be able to handle it and move on? We have seen many guys go back to collect everything they bought for a girl immediately after they break up. Believe me, it is not always the breakup that hurts the most for men. It is often the investment. This is why you will always hear men say, “After everything I did for that girl.” The less you invest and sacrifice, the easier it is to move on. Relationships are like SportyBet: always invest what you can afford to lose. People are like odds, they change.