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Loving Phrases to Say to Your Avoidant Partner
I once believed love meant expressing everything I felt.
Then I learned that for an avoidant nervous system, too many words feel like a cage - and the right ones, at the right moment, feel like a door unlocking.
Here's what actually lands.οΏΌ 1/5
To see what they already offer:
"I notice how you show up - even in the quietest ways."
"What you're doing is enough. You're enough. Right now, not someday."
To honor their autonomy:
"I love your passion and your projects. Let's find a rhythm where we both have room to breathe."
Words open doors. But only if you're anchored when you speak them - not offering love from desperation, but from steadiness.οΏΌ 4/5
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My BDβs new wife hit me up yesterday, and the irony of this entire situation is WILD. Theyβve known each other for about five months and got married after only two months of knowing each other, but somehow Iβm the problem. π She came at me over a conversation she took out of context, and the more I tried to deescalate and explain what was actually said, the angrier she got.
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AIO for these text messages my girlfriend had with one of her friends (ex talking stage from 2 years ago).
I'm currently sitting on my bed, while my girlfriend is taking a shower and I decide to look through her phone. Ive always respected her privacy, but recently I've been.
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My friend was offended because nobody praised him for taking his daughter to the pediatrician for the first time.
He has a three-year-old girl.
Last week, his wife had to work and asked him to take their daughter to her appointment.
Later, he mentioned in our group chat that heβd spent almost two hours at the doctorβs office.
He said he finally understood why his wife always complained about those things.
I asked if everything had gone well.
He said yes, but heβd expected at least a thank-you.οΏΌ
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Texts from my ex
My ex and I broke up due to domestic issues, we hadnβt spoken in over 3 months. He would randomly text me religious things to show me heβs βchangedβ. Hes a controlling narcissist and now that Iβm away from him I can see how crazy I was to stay.
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Texts from my ex best friend with my husband
For reference, Iβd like to begin by saying she made out with my husband after he tried to kiss her. Instead of her, pushing him away, she made out with him and they had an emotional affair via text and phone calls and still yet tries.
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SHE SAID SHE HAS NO TRUST IN MEN, AND BRO PULLED UP WITH HONESTY, LOYALTY AND PERSISTENCY BRO ISNβT JUST SHOOTING HIS SHOT, HEβS APPLYING FOR THE POSITION OF HUSBAND ππ
Here are five ways you know your relationship is truly healthy. Theyβre the boring stuff, not huge romantic gestures.
Number one, you know how to work through conflict. When either of you messes up, you admit it, say youβre sorry, fix what youβre doing, and then let it go:1/4οΏΌ
It could be sad, funny, or an inside joke, but theyβre the first person you think of.
And number five, you can share anything with them, and they wonβt throw it in your face later. Nobody keeps score. It doesnβt get dragged into future fights. They can see you at your lowest, accept it, and never hold it over you.
You donβt get any of this through luck. It doesnβt just happen, and you have to build it. Put in the work. 3/4οΏΌ
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Shit that annoys my wife, that only people with ADHD will understand:οΏΌβ¬οΈ
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THE ADHD STRUGGLE NOBODY SEES:
YOU LOOK LIKE YOU'RE DOING NOTHING.
BUT INSIDE YOUR HEAD, YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT 17 TASKS, FEELING GUILTY ABOUT 12 OF THEM, AND TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHICH ONE TO START.
AND SOMEHOW, STARTING NONE OF THEM FEELS EASIER THAN CHOOSING ONE. π