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Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Your annual reminder that we are under the thumb of attention economy that wants men and women to hate each other, and it’s ripping our world apart
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
This is why trans go after detransitioners with such relentless viciousness.
Imagine cutting off your own penis and living with an open wound for the rest of your life, with little to no sexual function.
This spells it out. And this is what they don't want you to think about.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
The one person who will live with you forever is you. The better you nourish and care for yourself, the better is your presence for others and for working on your dreams. Your wellbeing is essential. Investing in yourself doesn't bring instant results but the dividends it pays over time are incomparable.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
"Creativity" by Alex Norris (Dorris McComics) depicts the creative process as a bizarre, visceral transfer of ideas from the external world into tangible creation
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Your wife may already know what she should do, and she may only be talking to you because she wants to feel understood by her husband.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Love is not the cause of commitment, but the effect. You don’t wait until you have the perfect relationship to commit to a person—you commit to the person in order to create the perfect relationship. Soulmates are built, not found.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Me at 19 as a “trans boy”
Some think I hate trans people because of my ex-trans activism.
In truth, I do it all for them. The depressed, suicidal misfits who never think they’d be loved or safe as girls.
Repost if you agree all misfit girls should be safe from “transition.”
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Trans activists see detransitiong as defeat. It's not. Detransitiong is recognitinizing that "transitioning" is an unwinnable game and refusing to play it any longer.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Ellen Page describes “ masculinity” as authentic expression.
She could have done this while acknowledging her sex.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Many wonder how ex trans people could have ever thought they were trans as teens. For some, it’s largely peer influence and institutional affirmation. For others like me, it’s parental neglect.
Let me give an example… 🧵
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
For those struggling with gender issues or worried about a loved one, I offer peer mentoring and coaching from a holistic,-actualization, and of course, pro-reality perspective.
You are not alone in questing this. DM or book here: calendly.com/bookcoachlaura/…
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
I’m telling my story. The fact that my story may hit too close to home, or threaten some narrative you want to push, isn’t my problem. Stop making everything about yourselves.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
"before you came into my life i missed you so bad" -carly rae jepsen
"the finding of an object is in fact a refinding of it" -freud
"the object [of desire] is by nature a refound object. that it was lost is a consequence of that—but after the fact." -lacan
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
This psychoanalytic idea that men are compensating for their lack of a womb is bs. Historically, men create the OUTER womb – the environment (shelter, protection, food, reliability, etc) that will form the child.
The woman says: "I will undertake an enormous, irreversible biological investment."
Meanwhile, the man says: "I will alter the external world for our child to thrive." The outer womb.
Men will start a renaissance, invent new technology, build an entire civilization, for the child to thrive.
(This is no longer about sex at birth. These days, a female-bodied person can adopt the masculine role just fine.)
If you're a man and you're messed up inside, it may be that you're not playing your role. Maybe you're not working on any projects that are contributing to an outer womb. Or maybe you're working on such projects, but they're shrines to your own glory rather than offerings to the children of the future.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
People are working to stop transitions, if only we could convey how life-stage transitions are actually wonderful.
You need to transcend not 'transition'.
But it is also incredible to see how people awaken when they reject trans ideology.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
Insecure people mistake narcissism for confidence. Confident people recognize narcissism for what it is: insecurity.
Laura Becker🐦🔥 retweeted
If you’re still confused by all the masculine and feminine discourse, think about it this way:
Both men and women have a left and right hemisphere of the brain. Different functions and modes of processing are associated more strongly with one side or the other, but we all have access to both.
Masculine and feminine works similarly as a conceptual framework.
The qualities we tend to call masculine line up more closely with the structured, analytical, directional, execution-oriented side of human functioning.
The qualities we tend to call feminine line up more closely with the intuitive, receptive, relational, creative side.
You could call these categories something else entirely. Masculine and feminine are social constructs we use to describe a deeper duality in human nature.
Men and women contain both.
The point isn’t that masculine means male and feminine means female. The point is that we’re describing two complementary modes of being that exist in all of us.
