Men need to wake up and look after themselves better. A mam will not go to the hospital until he can no longer stand up from the bed. That's when they agree that they are actually unwell. A woman is earning, why are you not insisting she contributes amd tale some of the weight off of you so you don't have to struggle so much? Look at her talking and some of them are laughing. This people that she's addressing will go home and continue as normal. It's left for the men themselves to take their wellbeing seriously else things are not going to change.