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Two kinds of guys after she leaves him on read:
Guy 1 sends "?" then "hello??" then a paragraph about respect
Guy 2 hits the gym, sees his boys, texts her 3 days later like nothing happened
Guess which one she answers first
He’s still a nigger lol
🚨#BREAKING: Standup comedian Dave Chappelle says he “FEELS BETTER” ever since Charlie Kirk was m*rdered…
…and it PUTS HIM IN A GOOD MOOD THINKING ABOUT IT!!!!
“I feel f***** up saying this. It's scary being a public speaker.
And it-- And I, I, I mean, look, ever since that guy, Charlie Kirk, got m*rdered, a-and I, I shouldn't say this publicly, but... I feel better. I don't know.
I know I shouldn't say that, but- it's just a feeling. I didn't ask to feel this way. I just be driving around like,
"Why am I in such a good mood? Oh."
What a VILE thing to say… I can hardly believe what I’m listening to.
When she says "I'll let you know" about next weekend
Needy guy: "No rush!! Just keep me posted" and waits by the phone
Other guy isn't worried about what happens with any single interaction
Abundance gives you power
Which guy are you?
When she won't meet you on the big things
Guy 1 keeps negotiating and hoping she comes around
Guy 2 stops
If you're not getting compliance, at least eventually on big things, you're completely out of frame
Which guy are you?
Guys text too much.
The only way you put value on your attention is to make it scarce, especially through text messages.
If she likes you, she's going to text you. teapawt.net/MurrayHillGuy1/status/…
If you name is Jack and you went on a hinge date last night, I hope you read this.
Girl at the bar next to us was getting absolute texting PARAGRAPHS from a guy. She was giggling and showing all her friends.
We asked what was going on. She said they went on a date last night and he won’t stop texting her.
We all called him a beta and told her to send the “I ain’t reading all that” meme.
She goes, “Nooo he’s so nice, I feel bad.”
We asked how the date went.
“He was really nice, but if I actually liked him I would’ve gone home with him.”
Brutal..Don’t be that guy!
When she asks you to drop a boundary "just this once"
Weak guy:
- Says okay
- Needs her more than the standard
- Overstretches the line
Other guy puts in what he's willing to lose
Once you need something, you're going to overstretch your boundaries
Which guy are you?
When she uses sex to get you to bend a rule
Weak guy drops the boundary that night
Other guy keeps the standard
Never let a woman leverage sex against you in return for some compliance
Which one are you?
Two kinds of guys in dating
Guy 1 lives in her frame. He explains, apologizes, and waits for permission
Guy 2 sets the frame and the lead because he's a man
You're going to be somebody's slave because you're in your frame or you're in someone else's frame
Which one are you?
Finance bro has Money. DJ has Game. Trainer has Muscles.
Engineer has the paycheck and zero options.
Money alone doesn't get you laid.
Money. Muscles. Game. Frame. You need all four.
Official ranking of male professions:
1) Finance Bro — Makes like $500K. Every West Village girl wants him. Barely needs to text back.
2) Unemployed DJ — $37 to his name. Sleeps with more women than the entire list combined.
3) Bartender — Has already slept with your girlfriend. Makes six figures pouring vodka sodas.
4) Firefighter — Women love him. Works 2 24 hour shifts a week. Has 3 situationships.
5) Doctor — Every Jewish mother's dream. Loses his girlfriend to the bartender tho, but bangs his hot PA.
6) Tech Sales — Makes $200K doing absolutely nothing. Personality revolves around golf and cocaine.
7) Lawyer — highest salary. Bald at 29 tho. Wife is secretly on Raya and cheating on him with ⬇️.
8) Personal Trainer — Broke, but with abs & arms. Knows your wife better than you do. Has fun.
9) Real Estate Agent — Hasn't sold a house in 8 months. Instagram bio says CEO. Lives in NJ, but bio says NYC.
10) Consultant — Makes PowerPoints for a living. Thinks flying Delta is a personality trait.
11) Engineer — Makes $180K. Hasn't spoken to a woman outside of work since 2022.
12) Accountant — 5'7, balding, 820 credit score, maxed 401(k). Pays for her dinners while she texts the unemployed DJ. Future stepdad.
During a conflict with her
Weak guy matches her emotions and explains himself for 40 minutes
Other guy stays calm and leads
Fall into her frame and you're cooked
Which one are you?
When she starts becoming the center of your life
Weak guy: cancels gym, texts all day, drops his boys the second she calls
Other guy keeps his life the center
She will respond quickly, enter your frame, compliment your life, not be the focus of it
Which guy are you?
When she says "I don't usually date guys like you"
Weak guy: "What do you mean? I'm actually really nice once you get to know me"
Strong guy: "Lucky you" and keeps talking
She wants a chance to get you to break frame
Then it's "yeah, we conquered him"
Which one are you?
You get her number
Guy 1: "hey how's your week going?" and chats for 9 days before asking her out
Guy 2: "Hey, when are you free for drinks this week?"
The quickest way to see what her interest level is, you ask for a date immediately
Too fast or exactly right?
Level up!
Replying to @MLDMotivation
It took me a few years to learn this lesson, it finally clicked when i stopped giving a fuck









