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The way I can always tell if I'm speaking with the real victim of a narcissist, or with the actual narcissist playing the victim, is because the real victim knows what they've been through, and they also acknowledge and are accountable for the things they did that they feel ashamed about. The truth is that when you're being manipulated, gaslit, used, and abused by a narcissist, you're not your best self. You do react in an over-the-top way sometimes; you do all sorts of things you wouldn't normally do that you feel guilty and ashamed about; and you do act out of character because you're so desperately wanting to be heard, and you're simply trying to survive. The real narcissist who is playing the role of the victim in order to avoid being accountable doesn't do that. They don't reflect on themselves, they don't look at what they did, they don't consider the impact of their actions on the other person, and they don't feel guilt, shame, or remorse; they just blame everything on the other person

In HighSchool how much money did your parents give you daily for school?

I don’t ever wanna be called a nice person. Even in anyone’s story.. I don’t want anyone to consider me nice. You can be nice all you want, go the extra mile but if you’re dealing with ungrateful people trust me you’re never gonna be good enough anyway. I’m okay with that.

DID YOU KNOW? After Sarah passed on, Abraham married another woman called Keturah, and they had children together (Genesis 25). But something very striking stands out — those children never became part of the covenant story the way Isaac did. Why? Because God had already established a covenant with Abraham through Sarah. That covenant was not random, and it was not transferable based on effort, desire, or even results. It was ordained by God Himself. This reveals something deep and powerful: God is a God of covenants. There are things in your life that will only be sustained by the covenant that birthed them. You can have many opportunities, many connections, even many results — but only what is tied to your covenant with God carries divine backing, preservation, and generational impact. Let me break it down for you: If you rose through prayers — it is prayers that will sustain you. If you rose through giving — it is giving that will sustain you. If you rose through consecration — it is consecration that will keep you. The mistake many people make is this: They see someone sustained by a certain grace and they try to copy the method without understanding the covenant behind it. You cannot copy covenants. What works for one man may not work for another — not because God is partial, but because covenants are personal. Isaac didn’t struggle to become the child of promise — he aligned with what God had already spoken. Listen carefully: Your sustainability in life is tied to your alignment with your covenant. Some people abandon the very thing that lifted them. God helped you when you were fasting and praying, now you are too busy to pray. God raised you when you were committed to giving, now you feel like you’ve “arrived.” God preserved you when you were humble and yielded, now pride has taken over. And you’re wondering why things are shaking… It’s because you have stepped outside the covenant that was carrying you. Don’t do that. Go back to your altar. Go back to your place of encounter. Go back to the voice that started your journey. Stop trying to live another man’s spiritual life. Find your own covenant with God. Walk in it. Guard it. Stay consistent in it. Because at the end of the day, It is not activity that sustains a man… It is covenant.

The only way to impress a Authentic empath, is by being a good person. They don't care what you have, what you wear, where you live, or what you drive. They just have deep respect for people with pure hearts, good intentions and true character.

People typically don’t “go crazy” or have nervous breakdowns for no reason. The narrative of someone "going crazy" is often a tool used by abusers to deflect accountability and discredit their victim. What appears to be erratic behavior is usually a trauma response—a culmination of long-term psychological manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse. The victim may seem "unreasonable" or "unstable" because their nervous system is overwhelmed, often swinging between fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. Abusers exploit this, painting the victim as the problem to maintain their control and avoid scrutiny. It's a cruel tactic that isolates the victim further and obscures the true cause of their distress. Recognizing this dynamic is crucial for understanding the reality of psychological abuse and offering genuine support.

It is a duty of a man to provide a safe, secure and healthy environment for his Family. No Cheating no Abuse. An environment where Love and Respect is nurtured on a daily basis.

VERY SOON, you’ll open an EMAIL and just STARE at your screen. You’ll read it twice. Your hands will shake. Your eyes will fill with TEARS. Because the news you’ve been praying for… FINALLY ARRIVED. THE OFFER. THE JOB. THE BREAKTHROUGH. CLAIM IT.

Time to stand up for a cause bigger than ourselves as men, tomorrow 09:00!

Você conseguirá um emprego e ele será melhor do que imaginava.