If your father was not present in your life, it's not your shame to carry.
If you got raped it's not your shame to carry.
If you got abused it's also not your shame to carry.
Ontiretse-Onkarabile-Onkutlwile retweeted
I made one bad decision in May and haven’t recovered since😭
Ontiretse-Onkarabile-Onkutlwile retweeted
Idk girl they fighting for the right to get pregnant for married men... like idk
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Apparently only the side chicks kids are supposed to be protected
Thr kids in the marriage must have their worlds turned upside down and be ok with it
Imagine seeing your mother cry daily and they forcefully introduce your ugly half sibling
Ontiretse-Onkarabile-Onkutlwile retweeted
Consider that they're defending their mothers?
This topic came up before and I was shocked at the number of people who admitted to being affair babies
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Ok my final final thoughts: While on this topic, I really think that our problem here is a comprehension issue, yet again.
When we say "Black Lives Matter", we're not saying that other lives don't matter. We're emphasizing that Black Lives Matter because it is black lives that have historically been, and continue to be disenfranchised, abused, oppressed and undervalued; and so we MUST iterate that Black Lives Matter.
Similarly, when feminists were/are advocating that "mistresses don't owe their married lovers' wives and kids anything", that was not meant to be taken literally. This was a response to mistresses being unfairly and disproportionately given the blame of breaking nuclear families, when in truth, they are just a secondary, exchangeable and disposable player in the dynamics. If mistress x exits, the unfaithful husband will still be there. However in truth, mistresses DO have a social and moral obligation towards the wives and children of their married lovers (we all have a level of social and moral obligation towards one another as members of a society). However the married lover has a weightier, more sacrosanct, *covenental and contractual/legal obligation towards his wife and children, exactly because of the covenant and legal contract he willingly got into with them. That was the actual point.
"The literacy crisis isn't that people can't read the words. It's that they can't understand the context, infer meaning, recognise nuance, identify contradictions, or draw logical conclusions from what they've read." - Original author unknown.
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I didn’t know a thread dragging babies would be my reason to laugh today.😭
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the fact that halal is being attacked but not kosher also absolutely screams psyop
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3. Around 60% of food sold by SA supermarkets is halal-certified & has been for decades. The same goes for most major fast-food chains, like KFC, Nando’s, McDonald’s & Spur. Again, all it means: animals slaughtered ethically, no cross contamination, non-pork food, no pork. Dassit
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1. There is no “halal replacement of food.” Halal certification of packaged food has been practised in South Africa for decades & is voluntary. All the “halal-certified” label means is that the food products meet Islamic dietary requirements. Nothing is added to the food.
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Male humor is implying that penetrative sex is degrading and whoever is at the receiving end is being “defeated”. This is how rape culture is casually enforced through sports and then we wonder why male athletes get so much support from fans when they end up abusing women
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Guys, just go have kids with married men & see how far your wokeness gets you. There are people who were conceived through affairs, who are telling you how unkind life was to them. But instead of listening to their lived experiences, you lot want to write think pieces? Ohooo.
Ontiretse-Onkarabile-Onkutlwile retweeted
#they have been rinsing the 5 same tweets since the ICJ case
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Guys, I PROMISE you, there’s a whole world outside of your circle hey. I’ve never heard of a Taylor Swift song, but she’s the highest selling female artist of all time. Just because YOU don’t listen to Olivia, doesn’t mean the rest of the world doesn’t, she has MILLIONS of fans🙏🏾
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Replying to @DrRebrand
Why are you, as a feminist, actively participating in something that perpetuates pain for other innocent children (basemshadweni) and another woman;the wife, but suddenly draw the line when it comes to your own child being acknowledged and spared that same pain? 🫠


































