Vent/rant & n/sfw gposes. (mainly sfw.) No E/RP - Lalalewders - QOS 30 - UK - 7326♥︎
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Friendly PSA - If you dm/reply to me in a flirtatious manner, or I see you responding to tweets in a flirty way, I'm 99% less likely to reply to you unless we're already friends. I don't want to be spoken to like that by anyone other than partner.
Thanks for understanding.
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A healthy relationship is going to push you and it's totally different from the toxic mess you've dealt with before. Forget about being totally drained from tossing and turning all night, waking up super anxious, and constantly feeling like you just don't measure up. With a good partner, the challenge is actually about learning to open up and be real with them. You've got to stop yourself from messing things up when things get good. You really need to learn how to keep your feelings in check and just show up for your person, even when you're totally not in the mood for it. It is all about stepping up and finally growing up on an emotional level.
For some reason I'm in a terrible spiral of being sick. Projectile vom since yesterday, banging hurty head, face hurty
Me when I actively try my best to learn how to love the way it's needed or rectify discomfort if I even think I did something wrong
According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them, they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night
This and the qrt, there's nothing i struggle with more than being left in the dark, or in silence ;-; I need full communication after being so used to nothing ;-;
Grandmas funeral today, went reasonably well, however I'm pissed, maybe just emotional, I dunno.
Old family friends that I used to dance with came.. The eldest daughter, who I had words with last year, didn't even /look/ at me, let alone talk to me? It felt so awkward.
