To the women carrying hurt that never got an apology, betrayal that reshaped how you trust, and a childhood or home that didn’t model the love you deserved, your pain is valid, and it was never your fault for feeling it. But don’t let the hurt convince you that every man is the one who wronged you. Heal the wound so it doesn’t choose your next relationship for you. Hurt people deserve healing, not a war that keeps them stuck in the very pain they’re trying to escape
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My husband booked an expensive restaurant for our 15th wedding anniversary.
I thought he was finally making an effort after months of working late and complaining that his business was struggling.
We'd barely finished our starters when a woman approached our table.
She looked directly at me.
“I'm sorry, but I need to know something. Are you still married to him?”
I looked at my husband.
He put down his fork.
The woman explained that he'd told her our divorce had been finalized eight months earlier.
He'd also promised to marry her and buy a house with her.
She'd already transferred him $24,000 toward the purchase.
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Replying to @NUGC_
May EVERY Woman and Man heal from ALL their traumas, even those they don't speak about.
And yes Men have also been victims of women's wicked and unreasonable behaviors, likewise Women.
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TODAY IN HISTORY 📆 26TH OCTOBER
📆 On this day in 1984, born on October 14, 1984, with a rare congenital heart defect, Baby Fae received a heart from a baboon. The surgery was performed by Dr. Leonard L. Bailey at Loma Linda University Medical Center in California.
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We do not know what lies ahead. If now is an evidence of what is tomorrow, then maybe there’s nothing in tomorrow but that itself is uncertain. In pain, sadness, joy and happiness we’ll keep moving forward because that’s the only direction to move in. Exoriemur ex cineribus.
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If you know you haven't healed from your past relationship, please don't rush into another one just to end up projecting your pain onto someone who genuinely loves you. Take your time, heal, and make sure you're emotionally ready before letting someone else into your life.
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Ahhh! Wait, is APC exempted from the ₦10 billion campaign spending benchmark?
Is this part of the reason why removing the subsidy was okay? Is this how we all tighten our belts for the moment so we can enjoy the prosperity phase?
Imagine! In a country where graduates may never earn ₦50 million throughout their entire working lives, yet they are kidnapped and asked to pay ₦50 million in ransom.
In a country where people now queue for ₦1,000 giveaways. In a country where falling sick is now at your own risk.
Yet politicians are giving out Jeeps just to campaign! You would rather share millions among your political elite than use that money to improve the lives of over 200 million Nigerians.
There's God!
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“Does it contain apples?”
“No.”
“What about pine?”
“No.”
“Great. Let’s call it pineapple.”
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Somewhere, someone is living the life you keep saying you want. The question is, what are they doing differently? 👀
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Men will waste years of your life with false promises to settle with you then leave you for someone younger.
It's very okay to leave a man after a year or two if you sense a bit of unwillingness to put a ring on your finger.
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My husband’s nephew begged to come and stay with me. He wanted to attend a one-month forklift training. My house was closer to the school, so I agreed.
He has spent about three weeks here. In all that time I have never seen him pick up a broom, wash a cup, or even greet my sick mum, who is also living with me.
I decided not to confront him. His one month was almost up.
Yesterday he came to tell me his bathing soap had finished. He needed money to buy another one.
I ignored him.
He is about 19. Old enough to attend forklift training. Old enough not to ask me for soap after three weeks of doing nothing.
I have told him to round up the training and prepare to leave.
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I find it so weird when ladies accept gifts from men that they have zero feelings for. That's actually theft.
The pressure to survive has made sleep feel like a luxury instead of a basic human need.
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Let them think they have you fooled; keep playing the part, and never let them know what you are thinking. Meanwhile, prepare for all eventualities.
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A mentally unstable, middle-aged woman normally stands at a particular junction in my neighborhood
This junction is enroute to a lot of schools and lesson centers
She would always come early in the morning or in the afternoon after school hours to direct traffic and help children cross the road
This act has worn so many hearts; parents and passersby always hail her and sometimes give her some cash
Early this term, she stopped appearing frequently, and at some point, she stopped coming altogether
Everyone has been asking after her
Recently, some women who know her family house inside town went to search for her
They were told that she was seriously sick, and her family have been giving her some local treatments
One of the women, told them to allow her to take the woman to the hospital, volunteering to foot the bill
Omo, she said the moment she saw her something clicked
She said, 'this woman is pregnant ooh'
They took to a lab and it was confirmed
She's pregnant and they've been giving her local medications
Who impregnated a mentally unstable woman, bikonu? 😩



















