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I blocked my mother-in-law yesterday, and honestly, I still haven't recovered from what I overheard. π She called my husband while I was in the kitchen and thought I couldn't hear their conversation. She asked him if I had been mistreating him, whether I shouted at him, denied him food, or made his life miserable. Then she lowered her voice and told him that if he was suffering, he should open up so the family could come and take me out of the house. I nearly dropped the spoon in my hand.This woman was preparing a rescue operation for a grown man who sleeps peacefully every night, eats three meals a day, and still asks me where his socks are. The funniest part?
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We applied for same job. She got it. I congratulated her. 3 months later at her housewarming, a colleague said "She hasn't told you what happened?" She told them I wasn't reliable enough. She said "I knew you'd get a better one. I wanted this one for myself." I helped her prepare. She sabotaged me.
My friend and I applied for the same position at a company.
She got the job, and I didn't. I congratulated her genuinely, even though I was disappointed.
Three months later, she invited me to her housewarming party.
While everyone was celebrating, one of her colleagues made a comment that caught my attention.
He said, "You mean she hasn't told you what happened during the interview?"
I laughed and asked what he meant.
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I stopped speaking to her.
Now our mutual friends are saying I should forgive her because she eventually got the job through her "smart move."
But let me tell you what happened after that, because this is the part that made everyone go quiet.
Two weeks after I stopped speaking to her, I got a better job. A bigger salary. A better company. She heard about it. She called me. She said, "See? I told you you'd get a better opportunity. I knew you'd get a better one. That's why I took this one. I was right. You should thank me. If I hadn't sabotaged you, you would have been stuck in that small job. Now you have a big job. I did you a favour."
I said, "You did me a favour? You lied about me. You told them I wasn't reliable. You made me look bad. That's not a favour. That's betrayal. You didn't do it for me. You did it for you. Don't rewrite the story to make yourself the hero. You were scared. You were scared they'd pick me, not you. So you lied."
She said, "But if I hadn't said that, they might have picked you, not me. I had to do it."
I said, "No, you didn't have to lie. You could have let them decide. You could have let them pick the best. You chose to lie. You chose to make me look unreliable so you could look reliable. That's not a smart move. That's a scared move."
She said, "I'm sorry. I was scared. I needed that job. My rent was due. My family needed me. I thought if I lost it, I'd lose everything. I helped you prepare? No, you helped me prepare. You shared your answers. You practiced with me. You told me what to say. And I used that to lie about you. I'm ashamed."
I said, "I helped you prepare because I thought we were friends. I thought we were competing fairly. I thought if you won, you won because you were better. Not because you lied about me. I congratulated you genuinely. I was disappointed, but I was happy for you. And you were hiding a lie. For 3 months, you were hiding that you sabotaged me. You invited me to your housewarming party. You celebrated with the job you stole from me by lying. You drank wine. You cut cake. And you never told me."
She cried. She said, "Forgive me."
I said, "I forgive you, but I can't trust you again. Forgiveness is not trust. I can forgive you for lying. I can't trust you with my dreams again. I can't apply for anything with you again. I can't share my plans with you again. Because next time, you might lie again. Next time, you might say I'm not reliable again."
MAN SANGO retweeted
My friend and I applied for the same position at a company.
She got the job, and I didn't. I congratulated her genuinely, even though I was disappointed.
Three months later, she invited me to her housewarming party.
While everyone was celebrating, one of her colleagues made a comment that caught my attention.
He said, "You mean she hasn't told you what happened during the interview?"
I laughed and asked what he meant.
He looked at my friend, and suddenly the atmosphere changed.
After everyone left, I confronted her.
What she told me shocked me.
Apparently, she had been asked during her interview whether she knew anyone who could fit the role. She mentioned my name but deliberately told them I wasn't reliable enough.
When I asked why she would do that, she said:
"Honestly, I knew you would eventually get a better opportunity. I just wanted this one for myself."
I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
The same person I had helped prepare for that interview had quietly sabotaged me.
MAN SANGO retweeted
He looked at my friend, and suddenly the atmosphere changed.
After everyone left, I confronted her.
What she told me shocked me.
Apparently, she had been asked during her interview whether she knew anyone who could fit the role. She mentioned my name but deliberately told them I wasn't reliable enough.
When I asked why she would do that, she said:
"Honestly, I knew you would eventually get a better opportunity. I just wanted this one for myself."
I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
The same person I had helped prepare for that interview had quietly sabotaged me.
I stopped speaking to her.
Now our mutual friends are saying I should forgive her because she eventually got the job through her "smart move."
But let me tell you what happened after that.
Two weeks after I stopped speaking to her, I got a better job. A bigger salary. A better company. She heard about it. She called me. She said, "See? I told you you'd get a better opportunity. I did you a favour."
I said, "You did me a favour? You lied about me. That's not a favour. That's betrayal."
She said, "Forgive me."
I said, "I forgive you, but I can't trust you again. Forgiveness is not trust."
So tell me: Would you forgive a friend who sabotaged you and then said "I did you a favour"?
MAN SANGO retweeted
My friend and I applied for the same position at a company.
She got the job, and I didn't. I congratulated her genuinely, even though I was disappointed.
Three months later, she invited me to her housewarming party.
While everyone was celebrating, one of her colleagues made a comment that caught my attention.
He said, "You mean she hasn't told you what happened during the interview?"
I laughed and asked what he meant.
He looked at my friend, and suddenly the atmosphere changed.
After everyone left, I confronted her.
What she told me shocked me.
Apparently, she had been asked during her interview whether she knew anyone who could fit the role. She mentioned my name but deliberately told them I wasn't reliable enough.
When I asked why she would do that, she said:
"Honestly, I knew you would eventually get a better opportunity. I just wanted this one for myself."
I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
The same person I had helped prepare for that interview had quietly sabotaged me.
I stopped speaking to her.
Now our mutual friends are saying I should forgive her because she eventually got the job through her "smart move."
But let me tell you what happened after that.
Two weeks after I stopped speaking to her, I got a better job. A bigger salary. A better company. She heard about it. She called me. She said, "See? I told you you'd get a better opportunity. I did you a favour."
I said, "You did me a favour? You lied about me. That's not a favour. That's betrayal."
She said, "Forgive me."
I said, "I forgive you, but I can't trust you again. Forgiveness is not trust."
So tell me: Would you forgive a friend who sabotaged you and then said "I did you a favour"?
My friend and I applied for the same position at a company.
She got the job, and I didn't. I congratulated her genuinely, even though I was disappointed.
Three months later, she invited me to her housewarming party.
While everyone was celebrating, one of her colleagues made a comment that caught my attention.
He said, "You mean she hasn't told you what happened during the interview?"
I laughed and asked what he meant.
He looked at my friend, and suddenly the atmosphere changed.
After everyone left, I confronted her.
What she told me shocked me.
Apparently, she had been asked during her interview whether she knew anyone who could fit the role. She mentioned my name but deliberately told them I wasn't reliable enough.
When I asked why she would do that, she said:
"Honestly, I knew you would eventually get a better opportunity. I just wanted this one for myself."
I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
The same person I had helped prepare for that interview had quietly sabotaged me.
I stopped speaking to her.
Now our mutual friends are saying I should forgive her because she eventually got the job through her "smart move."
But let me tell you what happened after that, because this is the part that made everyone go quiet.
Two weeks after I stopped speaking to her, I got a better job. A bigger salary. A better company. She heard about it. She called me. She said, "See? I told you you'd get a better opportunity. I knew you'd get a better one. That's why I took this one. I was right. You should thank me. If I hadn't sabotaged you, you would have been stuck in that small job. Now you have a big job. I did you a favour."
I said, "You did me a favour? You lied about me. You told them I wasn't reliable. You made me look bad. That's not a favour. That's betrayal. You didn't do it for me. You did it for you. Don't rewrite the story to make yourself the hero. You were scared. You were scared they'd pick me, not you. So you lied."
She said, "But if I hadn't said that, they might have picked you, not me. I had to do it."
I said, "No, you didn't have to lie. You could have let them decide. You could have let them pick the best. You chose to lie. You chose to make me look unreliable so you could look reliable. That's not a smart move. That's a scared move."
She said, "I'm sorry. I was scared. I needed that job. My rent was due. My family needed me. I thought if I lost it, I'd lose everything. I helped you prepare? No, you helped me prepare. You shared your answers. You practiced with me. You told me what to say. And I used that to lie about you. I'm ashamed."
I said, "I helped you prepare because I thought we were friends. I thought we were competing fairly. I thought if you won, you won because you were better. Not because you lied about me. I congratulated you genuinely. I was disappointed, but I was happy for you. And you were hiding a lie. For 3 months, you were hiding that you sabotaged me. You invited me to your housewarming party. You celebrated with the job you stole from me by lying. You drank wine. You cut cake. And you never told me."
She cried. She said, "Forgive me."
I said, "I forgive you, but I can't trust you again. Forgiveness is not trust. I can forgive you for lying. I can't trust you with my dreams again. I can't apply for anything with you again. I can't share my plans with you again. Because next time, you might lie again. Next time, you might say I'm not reliable again."
Our mutual friends said, "Forgive her, she did it because she was scared. She did it because she needed the job. She eventually got the job through her smart move. You got a better job anyway. So what's the problem?"
I said, "The problem is not the job. The problem is the lie. I got a better job, yes. But I got it DESPITE her lie, not BECAUSE of her lie. Don't tell me to thank her for lying. Don't tell me to forgive her because I got a better job. I got a better job because I am good. Not because she sabotaged me. If I had gotten a worse job, would you still say forgive her? If I had gotten no job, would you still say it was a smart move? No. You say forgive her because I got lucky. Luck is not forgiveness."
She said, "I understand. I lost a friend to win a job. Was it worth it? No. I won the job. I lost you. I have a housewarming party, but I have no friend to celebrate with. I have a job, but I have no one to trust."
So tell me: Would you forgive a friend who sabotaged you to get a job, and then said "I knew you'd get a better one, I did you a favour"?
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I remembered how my cousin asked to borrow 10,000 from me for school fees. He said, "I'll pay you back when I get my salary."
Six months later, he asked me at a cafΓ© why I was still walking around with a cracked phone screen.
I replied, "Well, I'm actually waiting for your 10,000 so I can get a new phone."
He looked surprised and said, "Why didn't you say anything? I thought it wasn't urgent for you."
He transferred the money right there at the table.
And that's when I realised I had spent six months feeling too embarrassed to ask for my own money back, while apparently, all he needed was to know what I wanted to use it for. I always thought that saying "I'll pay you back when I get my salary" was already an agreement.
I remembered how my cousin asked to borrow 10,000 from me for school fees. He said, "I'll pay you back when I get my salary."
Six months later, he asked me at a cafΓ© why I was still walking around with a cracked phone screen.
I replied, "Well, I'm actually waiting for your 10,000 so I can get a new phone."
He looked surprised and said, "Why didn't you say anything? I thought it wasn't urgent for you."
He transferred the money right there at the table.
And that's when I realised I had spent six months feeling too embarrassed to ask for my own money back, while apparently, all he needed was to know what I wanted to use it for. I always thought that saying "I'll pay you back when I get my salary" was already an agreement.
But let me tell you what happened after.
After he paid, he said, "I'm sorry. I thought you didn't need it. You always said 'It's okay, take your time.' So I thought 10,000 was nothing to you." I said, "I was embarrassed to ask for my own money. I thought you'd think I'm broke." He said, "If you had told me you needed it for your phone, I would have paid in month 1." I said, "From now on, I'll give you a date and a reason. I need it on the 5th for my phone." He said, "Good. That's an agreement. 'When I get salary' is not an agreement. It's a wish."
We bought a new phone together. He paid for the cover. I forgave him. I forgave myself.
So tell me: Have you ever been too embarrassed to ask for your own money?
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3. he complained and said he didn't want to go to that side (Ibirapuera)
4. I said no problem, dude, we can cancel without any hassle
5. then he decided he'd do it and my big-mouthed girlfriend said she'd help with a tip (and you tip on Uber through the app when you finish the trip)
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at the restaurant, we asked for a table, sat down, the waiter was already taking our order and out of nowhere the hostess came over saying the uber was calling her out there
my girlfriend got up and went out in the rain to see what he wanted and he demanded a tip in front of everyone my
the girlfriend got embarrassed and gave a 20-real bill, she was scared to say no or anything
we thought it was really lame of him to charge like that, it was really awkward
we gave a rating of 1 because he broke traffic laws and we also filed a complaint, fuck it
that's it, kisses
But let me tell you what happened after that, because this is the part that made the whole restaurant go quiet.
She came back inside, soaking wet. Her hair was wet. Her dress was wet. Her makeup was ruined. She said, "He wanted his tip. In cash. Now. In the rain. In front of everyone." I said, "What? I said we'd tip in the app! Why did you pay cash?" She said, "Because he called me out in the rain! He made the waitress come to our table! Everyone was looking! I was embarrassed! I didn't want to make a scene! I gave him 20 reais!"