Chico Guapo

I've come across so many people who only focus on the negative. They talk about what can go wrong and never about what can go right. Never seeing beauty, just ugliness. Nitpicking. Finding flaws. Always seeing the worse in everything. I wondered why? Why can't they ever see the other side? And I realised, it's not what they see, it's who they are. Sad, insecure, miserable. If you come across such people, don't try to fix them. Argue with them. Or explain anything to them. They won't get it. Just ignore them.

Introverts, stay away from toxic people at all costs. Why? Understand this: you have a kind heart. You have a giving nature. And toxic people can smell that from a mile. They'll act like the sweetest person in the world and will take advantage of your kindness. How to spot them? Think about how you feel after spending time with them. Do you feel drained? Emotionally exhausted? Do you feel used? That's your sign. You'll never feel like that in company of people who genuinely care about you. Remember this: no matter how lonely you get. No matter how shitty it feels. Stay away from them. They've not changed. And they will hurt you and drain you and empty you again. Protect your kind heart.

Introverts go silent when they're hurt. It's not a coping mechanism, it's how they protect their peace. They can lash out. Get angry. Argue & fight. But they know it's not worth it. So they just withdraw, go silent , and process their emotions in private. But you won't get it.