If you鈥檙e complaining about your life:
You鈥檙e either satisfied and scared to admit it, or you鈥檙e ignoring opportunities to change because your attention is pre-occupied with what you can鈥檛 change.
Imagine the worst person you know.
Imagine what the world would have to look like for their actions to be justified.
That鈥檚 the world they think they live in.
Overcoming obstacles to pursue someone is seductive because it communicates grit, and so it isn鈥檛 hard to imagine why sex positivism (a concept that has reduced social obstacles to sexual expression) has coincided with heightened interest in higher-risk sexual taboos.
Just got asked by our marriage counselor if I ever get jealous and I felt like an alien denying I ever had. I know it seems impossible but Trust really can replace jealousy entirely if you work at it.
Every job pays you in three ways,
Experience, Relationships, and Money.
Experience improves skill
Relationships improves visibility
Money improves resources
Any job you take should have at least
A lot of 1 thing
A fair amount of 2 things
Or a little of all three.
Get offended by a compliment is just an attempt to manipulate people into babysitting your insecurities.
We love and hate the people that change us the most, but love alone is reserved for those we give permission to do so.
Trust your intuition when making decisions about things you know about or have done before
Don鈥檛 trust your intuition about things you know nothing about or have never done before
If life gives you lemons and you make lemonade because that鈥檚 all you know how to make with lemons, did YOU CHOOSE to make lemonade, or did life?
Self-love is not about bath bombs, mimosas, and massages. It鈥檚 doing the things that you said you were going to do鈥o that you can trust yourself again. Self-Love is what you feel when the things you do everyday unconsciously lead you to exactly where you want to be.
