After gaining over 700 new followers the past day, I wanted to introduce myself to all of you and reintroduce myself to current followers. Post 30 here in Miami and I talk about Bachelor life after 30 as well as various cultural, political, and social trends that impact single men. When I was in my early 20s, I used to wonder, what alternative is there to life if you don't get married and have kids in your 30s? Is it a lonely miserable existence? Well, now I am living that life and I have to say it's amazing. To get in-depth stories and my thoughts on various topics, you can also subscribe to my Substack! Link in comments below.

27 is the one age every guy in his 20s should be pay attention to. It's the progress report. If you made right decisions in your 20s up to this date, you'll wake up at 27 seeing the outcomes of those decisions. If you made the wrong decisions or have just been coasting by, 27 is that age where you get a brutal reality check. Of all the guys I've tried to help, this is the one age that bites them the hardest.

One thing you notice about men in their twenties in this day and age is that the gap between the haves and the have nots has gotten massive. On one hand, you'll have the top 5% of guys like a Clav, some internet celeb, or guy who made it rich and looksmaxxed early. These guys are living the life, partying, meeting powerful people, getting with beautiful women, and so on. Then you have guys who are living at home, unemployed, no career prospects, and just chronically online complaining or attacking others living better than them. The latter is going to be in for quite a reckoning in their thirties.

One of the biggest mistakes I see guys make in their 20s that bite them hard in their 30s is living with their parents through most of them. There is no replacement for taking the leap, living on your own (or with roommates), being in a new city, and learning how to truly be independent. The sooner you do it, the sooner you go from being a boy to a man. Meanwhile, the guys who delay this and are still living with their parents after 25 are emotionally stunted and have a hard time developing in their 30s. They will undoubtedly have worse dating lives, less experience with women, less experience socializing, and less experience doing anything for themselves. Do whatever you can to live on your own as a guy as soon as possible. The growth it will give you will be one that only comes along once in a lifetime.

If there is one trait I have noticed with guys that struggle a lot with women, it's how they take themselves way too seriously and have a sensitive ego. You make a joke? They easily get offended. These guys cannot deal with the mind games a woman plays or the rejection that comes with dating. It's why finance, tech, and the White Collar world are flooded with men who have money and looks but still underperform with women. Prime example are guys you see on Incel spaces on the internet who will argue with you day and night and defend their failing way of life. They rather protect their ego than get better.

The elephant in the room we don't want to admit is that the vast majority of the guys in the Manosphere were actually terrible with women. Number one reason is that these guys took themselves too seriously and had a sensitivity problem, a huge problem. No way you can deal with a woman's mind games or the rejections that come with cold approach if you are this way. However, these guys were great at marketing themselves as an authority on the matter because of how much they spoke about it and the audience they got online. That became a classic case of the blind leading the blind.

A theory that doesn't get discussed enough about why Indians were so hated by the Manosphere, which eventually led to Indian Hate going mainstream, is the unattainability of good looking Indian women. The Manosphere when it first started used to pride itself on "collecting flags" by sleeping with women of various nationalities as some sport. With Indian women, the vast majority look awful. However, you get the few who look like Sunny Leone or some Bollywood actress, downright gorgeous. These women are even hard to attain for the average Indian guy, forget going interracial. I could only imagine the frustration a sex-crazed man who craves conquest would get here. Sure, some Chad or Tyrone will no doubt have a lot of success but the vast majority of guys of other Races will not. What better thing to do than rant online about Indians as a result.

One of the main reasons Right Wing politics got so extreme is because at some point in the 2010s, it merged with the Manosphere which was already going political. Imagine sexually frustrated men playing victim who want politics to save the day. Some voices even crossed over into politics itself. When sexual frustration and lack of achievement with women wounds a man's ego, he carries that hurt for life and takes it out on anyone and everyone. Immigration became a huge problem around the Migrant Crisis in 2015, that is when the Manosphere had completely merged with movements like MAGA.

One realization I have had over the years is that Western women aren't nearly as bad as the internet and Manosphere taught you that they were, they just had more leverage for years. Your typical woman from the Eastern world will embody those traits far more once she gets the same leverage. Don't believe me? Go interact with a Ukrainian chick in any major Western city, there's your answer.

The Manosphere deserves a lot more blame for things being so bad for modern men right now. Most dating problems can be traced back to scammy dating coaches and Manosphere voices influencing men and making then bitter. "PUAHate" was the first ever major Incel site and it was loveless dudes talking about how programs like RSD ripped them off and they never got better. At the same time, the Manosphere was pushing anti-Western woman rhetoric and selling guys on the idea of going abroad for easy sex. They poisoned the minds of young men who were just finishing school or had repressive upbringings so no way to tell right from wrong. But the Manosphere had the marketing and the reach so this was the first influence men got with male self-help. A decade later, we have seen the outcome of that. The average guy is angry, bitter at women, and cynical.

Anyone who has been to or stayed in Macon before knows the place is a sh*thole. Even knew people that went to Mercer and had to worry about being attacked and mugged by townies. People act like there is a Georgia outside of Atlanta. Nah bro, once you get outside of Atlanta, the state is either a giant ghetto, giant trailer park, or the occasional charm of Savannah. I feel for anyone who has to actually move there for work. Going to be a lot of miserable transplants but then again, Georgia draws them in droves.

It's crazy how what we value in society as men has shifted to age, youth, and life experiences while young as opposed to the job title. Like your average guy rather be some 24 year old dude living in Miami, getting jacked, approaching hot girls all day, and occasionally going out as opposed to some 50 year old bald VP making half a million a year.

It's nothing personal but I will never get the hype behind Flanigan's in Miami. The food is disgusting and it literally brings locals who just want to watch sports ball all day. Is the appeal behind it being an Irish bar in a mostly Latino city?

The uglier the couple, the more publicly intimate they get. IYKYK.

For all the crap I say about the south, thing is there are a lot of Southern dudes who are cool AF. @DukeHerndon is one such example, follow him!

If you all want to see how sad, cringe, and pathetic sports fans in America are, follow this guy's Youtube channel. It's comedy gold.