Anisha👸👑⭕

If you are always the one who plans the dates, starts the difficult conversations, and asks, “When are we seeing each other?”, pay attention. One person should not have to carry the entire relationship while the other simply shows up. It feels romantic at first. You are thoughtful. You make things happen. But after a few months, you begin to notice something. If you stop initiating, everything goes quiet. No plans. No check-ins. No effort unless you make the first move. That is not peace. That is imbalance. A partner who genuinely wants the relationship will also make an effort to keep it alive. They will book the table, suggest the walk, plan the weekend, or simply say, “I’ve missed you. When can we see each other?” Love should not depend on one person constantly making the effort. Stop confusing being reliable with being the only person who cares. You deserve a relationship where the effort goes both ways.🤷‍♂️