>basically everybody cheats, man and women, its just how life works No it simply isn't Women cheating is horrific on the level of murder as a crime This is a verifiable fact in our evolutionary history where surname / Y chromosome correspondence puts an *upper bound* on cheating by women at about 1% per generation (upper bound because you can get a mismatch from adoptions) "Adultery" which traditionally meant "sex with a married woman by man not her husband" was an extremely serious crime and men would be acquitted of or not charged with murder for killing a woman who did that to him It wasn't until the 20th century in the US that "adultery" was redefined to "modern" version