David Saviour

THE AVOIDANT DOESN'T NEED YOUR SILENCE. HE NEEDS A BOUNDARY. Most women think giving him space is the answer. It isn't. Silence is exactly what taught him he can vanish and you'll still be waiting. Here's what actually happens: ⤵️

COMMON THINGS AN AVOIDANT SAYS... AND WHAT THEY ACTUALLY MEAN. "I just need some space." What it means: I am emotionally flooded and shutting down. I need to retreat to feel safe, but I don't know how to tell you that without feeling like I'm failing you. "I'm just really busy with work." What it means: The pressure of intimacy is building. I am using external distractions to avoid the internal discomfort of showing up for you emotionally.

WHY AN AVOIDANT FEELS MORE IN LOVE WITH YOU WHEN YOU'RE NOT AROUND

3 THINGS A HIGH-VALUE WOMAN NEVER GIVES A F*CK ABOUT: 1. Being liked by everyone.

Dating an ADHD woman is the most intense relationship I've ever been in. Here are 4 things I had to unlearn to make it actually work:

Is this an ADHD thing or is Her boyfriend just not prioritizing their relationship?

Men who have dated / married women with ADD/ADHD, how did your relationship turn out?

ADHD, Low IQ Score, and Struggling With School Hi everyone, I was diagnosed with ADHD two months ago, and I’m currently studying mechanical engineering at university. I’ve struggled with ADHD symptoms my entire life, but my parents were against medication. Looking back, I feel like untreated ADHD robbed me of my childhood and education.

Sex and ADHD: how does ADHD effect your sex life?

Is being in a relationship with someone who has ADHD actually sustainable? I’m starting to feel like I’m losing myself.

ADHD I don't remember 😞😕

How was your experience dating a guy with ADHD?

ADHD and dating: from excited to drained in a few days

Dating/Sex as an ADHD Woman My neighbours story

IF YOU'RE DATING SOMEONE WITH ADHD, THERE ARE THREE FIGHTS YOU'LL KEEP HAVING UNTIL YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY'RE ACTUALLY ABOUT. The argument isn't about what the argument is about.

"ADHD INTIMACY PATTERNS THAT QUIETLY ERODE RELATIONSHIPS:"

ADHD INTIMACY ISSUES THAT SILENTLY DAMAGE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS:

Sleeping next to an ADHD woman means realizing bedtime is basically a performance, not an event. Here are 4 chaotic things I've observed:

Before I dated an ADHD woman, I thought they were just "scattered" and "loud." Then I moved in with one. I was so wrong. Here is what they are actually like :

ADHD is remembering you needed to book the dentist at 11:52pm. Deciding it is too late to ring. Remembering again at 7am. Deciding it is too early. Remembering at 1pm. Being on a call. Remembering at 9pm. They closed at 6.