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This is a friendly counter to a recent OPC article about why we have a ministerial shortage. I agree performative masculinity is a trap for young men; however, an effeminate ministry is still a pressing matter. Pastors should command attention, exercise responsibility, and stand faithful against all odds. The article starts out with a question: "We need to ask why fewer young men are being formed into men capable of embracing costly, durable, public, spiritual responsibility." Answering this question requires understanding how the feminist culture and ways have seeped into the lives of young men and the church: 📷Manhood is declared "toxic" by society 📷All-male spaces are almost gone 📷Mother's Day vs. Father's Day sermons 📷"Always-believe-women" is promoted... 📷Tone-policing Church is too often a safe space for broken women, and men are purely decorative (see The Feminization of American Culture). This is not only my observation of nearly 30 years as a church officer but of others as well. The claim that the ministry is "masculine" is partly correct. That it is only for men is clear enough in Scripture; unfortunately, "maleness" and "masculinity" are being redefined in real-time. Often, churches and leaders pick up on the Current Thing™ without conscious thought. Thus, they rework Scripture to fit such things, and sometimes in fanciful ways, such as the anti-patriarchy article that was withdrawn from the OPC officer journal. This is itself illustrative of being too soft, for the article was never publicly denounced, and even another OPC church officer has defended its publication. On the other hand, sermons about submission are being attacked, like in the case of Rick Appleton of the PCA. And a straight-forward passage on women being the "weaker vessel" is presented as a Christ-and-the-church metaphor, yet similar passages on male-responsibility are taken at face-value. Interestingly, the author’s description on the manliness of the ministry includes Psalm singing. If such were a constant sign of manliness, then the RPCNA’s Testimony on Gender would be the most masculine work produced: “Society needs men and women who (like the biblical patriarch, Jacob) possess personality traits that break with gender stereotypes.” These described outward methods of the ministry—preaching techniques, catechizing, comforting, and the like—are also done by apostate churches. But their content is wrong. The masculine way of doing such things is what makes them male-acts as opposed to female doings, even if saying the same thing. Just compare a female “pastor” sermon found on social media with sermons by men. The issue then is what masculinity entails. False versions, as the article lists, should be avoided, yet the list offered is skewed. After all, assertiveness, aggression and physical dominance are part and parcel of manhood. Their misuse does not eliminate their proper function. Christian men are still men. And men are physically larger and stronger than women, hands-down. Adam was created of the earth and for manual labor of taking care of the garden. Our bodies reflect this, and so our acts and mindset should use this difference for the good of others and God’s glory. Unfortunately, this is the problem. More and more churches, parachurches, leaders and speakers ignore or downplay the physical and biological differences. Yet these also show up in personality distinctions between men and women as well. Our differences are not random but given with a purpose: men are to lead, protect and provide. And we should avoid the means, causes, occasions, appearances and provocations that would undermine this. I believe young men are seeing cracks where others see soundness. Some of it may be shrugged off as merely “appearances”—yet what else can a man go by unless he lives with the pastor at home? Performative masculinity is a serious concern, filling a void. In response, we need to look inward, examining our unspoken assumptions about manhood. One hundred years ago, there was a battle over the basics of Christianity which formed, partly, the OPC in 1936. And now the battle is an attack upon the basics of creation. The dearth of pastors from an ever-shrinking pool of young men is the evidence.
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I doubt all the online influencers know Samuel Sey beyond his public persona.
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Admirable.
I will not delete this. I will own what I posted. I was told by what I consider reliable sources that he wasn’t here illegally. I was obviously wrong. I make no caveats. As with anyone who is here illegally, I fully support our justice system and Samuel’s deportation if he’s truly here illegally. As a brother in Christ, I don’t rejoice in what has transpired and wait to hear the specific details of Samuel’s situation. I will pray for him and his family!
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" 'Sey...accepted voluntary departure,' DHS told RNS in an email." The news is claiming he's not fighting deportation. That's telling.
I could be wrong, but my guess on what happened with @SlowToWrite is this. It seems likely they filed an I-130 and did not realize they also needed an I-485. This would cause them to believe they have filed the necessary paperwork, and would also match with DHS saying there is no pending application. It would also mean he “unknowingly” overstayed and would perfectly align with him believing he was legally here. No matter what, please be in prayer for his wife and children.
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Here are the details on Samuel Sey of Slow to Write...
Details make all the difference with issues of citizenship & green cards because these are public matters, esp. with a public figure. I used to write for a secular news source & always sought out specifics. Why should this be any different? (that's a rhetorical question).
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which further necessitates the preaching assist husbands in their duties to wives asking questions at home.
1 Corinthians 14:35 says of wives, “…if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home…” In this command to wives there is an implicit duty for husbands, be willing and able to teach your wife at home.
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We lost the public schools decades ago. What we see today is the delayed effects. The worst is yet to come. Prepare accordingly and trust in God.
So here are 3 important points that Republicans miss time and time and time again: 1) 15 years ago someone like Talarico would be a side show at Berkely, CA speaking to 7 people, 5 of them high and 2 of them haven't bathed in a week. So why is he a threat today? 2) Everything he says sounds ridiculous to adults but sounds very comforting to young voters because it is the EXACT LANGUAGE they've heard since kindergarten through high school. 3) Republicans that try to win at the ballot box against someone like him is a losing battle if they do not eradicated SEL and mental health programs from K-12.
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Pastor Mathis retweeted
Most people currently under 50 will likely not be able to receive the kind of elderly care their parents and grandparents have. People will have to be cared for and die at home like they used to. The workers won't be there, the money won't be there, it's all coming down.
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Saying the quiet part out loud.
Immigration officials approved 173,000 people for citizenship through the first eight months of 2026, down 72 percent from last year. A sharp tapering off in naturalizations has left hundreds of thousands of immigrants waiting as midterms approach. wapo.st/4z8e6E3
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Watson on taking heaven by violence: "It concerns men as magistrates; they must be violent: In punishing the nocent [guilty]."
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Details make all the difference with issues of citizenship & green cards because these are public matters, esp. with a public figure. I used to write for a secular news source & always sought out specifics. Why should this be any different? (that's a rhetorical question).
I’m not at liberty to share all the details, but suffice it to say that many people rejoicing over this have given a completely incorrect rendering of what occurred and why. ICE did not come to his home. This whole thing is a paperwork issue that they’re working to resolve. Samuel Sey is a good man. As you can imagine, his wife, who’s at home with their 3 babies, is devastated and also trusting the Lord to help them find a resolution quickly. Please pray for all of the Seys. Pray for wisdom and provision. Those celebrating because they don’t like something Sam said are slanderous backbiters and gossips. Pay them no mind
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Is this a joke?
Imagine if these were your pastor’s goals for the day (and he broadcasted it on X)
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Give a follow, anon
I’m a fairly benign account. I just post about the pernicious impact of Keller and growing rot in the PCA. I don’t really care about content. I want to just arm friends to save the church I grew up in. I unexpectedly gained a lot of followers over anti E-Lie sentiment. Very cool.
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Wait. What?
“In [the church], a kind of cross-gender enrichment happens naturally. Of course it is less intense than in marriage. And yet [it] is not a poor second to marriage, since in marriage you are put together with just one member of the opposite sex.” (Kathy Keller on singleness)
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Pastor Mathis retweeted
Banger by @ShawnMathis1972. Pastorally wise. Culturally aware. Knows what time it is.
This is a friendly counter to a recent OPC article about why we have a ministerial shortage. I agree performative masculinity is a trap for young men; however, an effeminate ministry is still a pressing matter. Pastors should command attention, exercise responsibility, and stand faithful against all odds. The article starts out with a question: "We need to ask why fewer young men are being formed into men capable of embracing costly, durable, public, spiritual responsibility." Answering this question requires understanding how the feminist culture and ways have seeped into the lives of young men and the church: 📷Manhood is declared "toxic" by society 📷All-male spaces are almost gone 📷Mother's Day vs. Father's Day sermons 📷"Always-believe-women" is promoted... 📷Tone-policing Church is too often a safe space for broken women, and men are purely decorative (see The Feminization of American Culture). This is not only my observation of nearly 30 years as a church officer but of others as well. The claim that the ministry is "masculine" is partly correct. That it is only for men is clear enough in Scripture; unfortunately, "maleness" and "masculinity" are being redefined in real-time. Often, churches and leaders pick up on the Current Thing™ without conscious thought. Thus, they rework Scripture to fit such things, and sometimes in fanciful ways, such as the anti-patriarchy article that was withdrawn from the OPC officer journal. This is itself illustrative of being too soft, for the article was never publicly denounced, and even another OPC church officer has defended its publication. On the other hand, sermons about submission are being attacked, like in the case of Rick Appleton of the PCA. And a straight-forward passage on women being the "weaker vessel" is presented as a Christ-and-the-church metaphor, yet similar passages on male-responsibility are taken at face-value. Interestingly, the author’s description on the manliness of the ministry includes Psalm singing. If such were a constant sign of manliness, then the RPCNA’s Testimony on Gender would be the most masculine work produced: “Society needs men and women who (like the biblical patriarch, Jacob) possess personality traits that break with gender stereotypes.” These described outward methods of the ministry—preaching techniques, catechizing, comforting, and the like—are also done by apostate churches. But their content is wrong. The masculine way of doing such things is what makes them male-acts as opposed to female doings, even if saying the same thing. Just compare a female “pastor” sermon found on social media with sermons by men. The issue then is what masculinity entails. False versions, as the article lists, should be avoided, yet the list offered is skewed. After all, assertiveness, aggression and physical dominance are part and parcel of manhood. Their misuse does not eliminate their proper function. Christian men are still men. And men are physically larger and stronger than women, hands-down. Adam was created of the earth and for manual labor of taking care of the garden. Our bodies reflect this, and so our acts and mindset should use this difference for the good of others and God’s glory. Unfortunately, this is the problem. More and more churches, parachurches, leaders and speakers ignore or downplay the physical and biological differences. Yet these also show up in personality distinctions between men and women as well. Our differences are not random but given with a purpose: men are to lead, protect and provide. And we should avoid the means, causes, occasions, appearances and provocations that would undermine this. I believe young men are seeing cracks where others see soundness. Some of it may be shrugged off as merely “appearances”—yet what else can a man go by unless he lives with the pastor at home? Performative masculinity is a serious concern, filling a void. In response, we need to look inward, examining our unspoken assumptions about manhood. One hundred years ago, there was a battle over the basics of Christianity which formed, partly, the OPC in 1936. And now the battle is an attack upon the basics of creation. The dearth of pastors from an ever-shrinking pool of young men is the evidence.
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I reposted a newsworthy event & people fall into conniption fits. I used to write for a secular news source, giving Christian commentary. Public figures were no exception. Christian public figures are no exception either. Like all news, we shall wait to see how this plays out.
Samuel Sey (Slow to Write) & ICE are having a meeting. There's a lesson here. butler.miamivalleyjails.org/…
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Samuel Sey (Slow to Write) & ICE are having a meeting. There's a lesson here. butler.miamivalleyjails.org/…
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I used to write for a secular news source (Examiner. com, now Axios). I'd get the latest news & give a Christian commentary. Public figures were no exception. Christian public figures should be no exception either. Like all news, we shall wait to see how this plays out.
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Pastor Mathis retweeted
“Your Yankee philosopher is too self-sufficient to be cautioned from the past. He does not know history, he would not believe its conclusions if he did; he has no use for its lights, having enough “subjective” light of his own. To such a people the fact that a given experiment is too absurd to have been ever tried before, is an irresistible fascination: it is a chance not to be neglected.” RL Dabney
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