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SANDRA BIRCHMORE'S VOICE WAS HEARD TODAY. Assistant U.S. Attorney Brian Fogerty delivered what I consider a powerful and compelling closing argument in the federal murder trial of Matthew Farwell. It was meticulous in its presentation of the evidence, but equally important, it was deeply human. Fogerty accomplished something that had been missing from Sandra Birchmore's story for far too long: He restored her dignity, gave her a voice, and placed responsibility for her exploitation that began as a child, where it belonged. But for me, the most powerful aspect of this closing argument was what it gave back to Sandra. For years, according to the evidence presented, Sandra lived within a relationship defined by Farwell's power and control. Even after her death, the initial state investigation failed to give her the dignity, and justice she deserved. Today, although Sandra could not walk into that courtroom or confront Farwell herself, her words, her experiences, her digital footprint, and the physical evidence spoke for her. For perhaps the first time, the power dynamic was reversed. Farwell could no longer control the narrative presented to the jury. Sandra's life and the evidence of what happened to her were placed before twelve jurors charged with determining the truth. And there is something even larger here. Sandra Birchmore's death has brought national attention to the insidious, predatory nature of grooming and sexual exploitation. Grooming can slowly consume a child's identity until the child cannot distinguish manipulation from genuine care. That manipulation often continues into adulthood. My hope is that Sandra's story will educate hundreds of thousands of parents, teachers, and other trusted adults about the warning signs of grooming and the devastating consequences of failing to recognize them. Whatever the jury ultimately decides, that is a legacy of extraordinary importance. We owe Sandra Birchmore not only our compassion, but our gratitude. Her voice, finally heard, may become the voice that saves another child. Sandra Birchmore's voice was heard today. She spoke and we should listen.