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Some societal negativity surrounds the concept of Dominance. However, when used mindfully and consensually, Dominance can be a force for good, providing structure, direction, and growth.
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Replying to @UrCountessCe
@UrCountessCe
Your birthday queens will be celebrating soon 🥳
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Unless it's within a negotiated and time-limited role-play scenario, the need to "dominate" someone into baseline courtesy, common decency, consideration or transparency is a massive red flag.⛳️
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We have a MUCH wider range of activities and intensities over here in kink-land compared to the vanillas, which is why learning to communicate clearly and explicitly is a must.
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This is your regular reminder that you can not talk about in person meetings on my fan sites… visit my website or my telegram for that.
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Self abandonment in kink can look like:
-Dismissing your own discomfort
-Not safewording bc it disrupts things
-Allowing something bc they keep asking
-It's got to be really bad before saying anything
-Lack of attention on your own nervous system
What else? 🤔
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Before you reach out to a Domme you are drawn to, whether you simply like her, respect her, or have developed a crush, pause and ask yourself one thing: “how can I improve her day?”
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26 days until Scorpio season.
You boys aren’t ready for us
@UrCountessCe
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Femdom advice for aspiring submissives:
Ask what service means to her.
Your idea of being useful might have absolutely nothing to do with what she actually values.
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women really got convinced that being exhausted, independent, productive, low-maintenance and "doing it all" was aspirational.
personally, I'd rather be relaxed, well-rested, protected from unnecessary stress, and a little difficult to access.
a good pet knows better than to add noise to my life.
Countess Cecilia(Cincinnati) retweeted
My biggest agony is the fact that I want it all.
On one hand I want a sub who follows orders well and understand the established structure
On the other hand I also want someone who’s humorous enough to amuse me and not be overly rigid all the time
Finding that perfect balance of a sub is the most difficult.
And he must also be generous and send me plenty of tributes.
This is why I prefer to have multiple subs, I have too many personalities and dimensions within me. No one can cater to them all.
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There’s a lovely shift that happens when a man stops asking, “What do I get?” and starts wondering, “What would make her happy?” Suddenly flowers make sense. Gifts make sense. Making her happy becomes inherent to your nature.
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Most vanilla men are innately submissive but they don’t realize it because as a society we often associate masculinity and masculine behavior with dominance.
However, dominance can often be subtle and done through subconscious influence.
Men are easily directed and commanded by women, most of them don’t even realize it.
They follow orders well, crave structure, hierarchy and guidance of a woman.
That is submission





















