There’s a reason I have stayed away from the Toluwanisings funeral controversy , but this excuse from his wife is completely difficult to understand. You can live in your husband’s mansion, use his cars, enjoy his properties and benefits from his bank accounts, but you cannot bear to see the grave of the man you shared a life with? Make it make sense!. In my opinion the reason for this refusal is because she’s planning to sell that property in future, with the grave there it might affect the resale value. You want to remain comfortable with everything he left behind but you can’t stand to see his grave? If the man’s memory is unbearable, why is everything attached to his legacy still acceptable?.