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Potential is like clay. Without direction and consistent effort, it’s just a lump of dirt. @nwavemagazine

North Of The River.
Joined April 2011
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Being me is so much fun! 🕺🏾🙂‍↔️
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I let myself be perceived too much this weekend and had to stay up till 3am for my brain to have enough down time to finally let me sleep. Now I’m shattered with a full day of work to do. Fun.
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Many people are jealous of billionaires. I’m jealous of people who can experience the feeling of excitement.
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This woman makes me so nervous. I absolutely love it!
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My brain doesn’t experience excitement. Just nervous anticipation. Lets me know I really care about the outcome 🙂‍↕️. I like caring about things and people.
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Stylistically, this is exactly what my flat is like 😂.
🤖 Made with AI
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She said “Marriage is a partnership, not a reward for being perfect.” I needed to hear that.
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I really take my level of fitness for granted. It’s actually quite impressive that I can run back to back half marathon. But in my brain, anyone can choose to do that so it’s not really impressive to me. You don’t even have to be very skilled, just consistent and willing.
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Truth is, that’s how I feel about everything. If I’m consistent and willing, I’ll outperform 90% of the competition. And that’s before I actually start getting good at the thing. Only place this fails is dating.
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Mark up? My banner gives me free trims if I have good news. It’s a relationship thing though. I’ve been coming to this show for 26 years so it’s a bit different.
Replying to @_imnotyourm8_
Out of curiosity, do men get groom markups when planning their weddings? Do they experience any kind of wedding tax, or is it just brides suffering??😭
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They’ll call me a simp but this sounds like sex addiction. Or a drought.
Girl this is not a shelter
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Honestly…I should delete that reply. Can’t believe I let myself bite.
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“Where are the yearners??” 😂Ma’am, someone is yearning for you right now; you just don’t fancy them.
You think you made a male friend then he confesses his feelings for you, you better swallow it
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I duno man, most disagreements are more ego than rationale. You’re mad because you told yourself you’re right and don’t know what to do when someone disagrees with you. 9/10 times it’s really as simple as that.
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Why do people who live on hints get angry at people who live on clear communication? Why are you booing me when I’m doing the right thing?
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Most insults are more passion than logic. As a hyper-logical person…why would I let myself be affected by a logically unfounded comment? That would be dumb.
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A bob and formal wear with a short skirt? That might be the death of me.
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Kinda condescending to tell people you don’t know that their perspective on their own lives are invalid. If you’re cool with being 70 and alone that’s great. Why must the rest of us join you?
Being single will not kill you btw like you’ll actually be okay
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Immediately now!
I seriously need to get Wifey Riddim up on Spotify
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I’m such a geek man, my word! 😂 I absolutely love it. Can’t imagine what could possibly be the benefit of only absorbing an average amount of information.
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I can’t imagine not being able to sing. That’s free serotonin right there!!!
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Grateful that my friends aren’t fucking dickheads. Grateful that my friends don’t pander to me. Grateful that my friends keep it real honest with me. Don’t know what’s going on in other peoples camps and honestly, my curiosity is but a vapour in the heart of a storm.
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