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Love, Laughter and Happily Ever After in God 🤎🔒
#ALifeOfJoy
📸: @ijeworks
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If you’re a first generation achiever or you’re trying to be one in your family, this one is for you!
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The essential difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength or knowledge, but a lack of will.
So you didn’t get that Visa, go again.
You didn’t get that job; apply for another one.
You lost a relationship; give it time and try again.
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The problem is that some people are used to always winning and getting things at the current level of comfort but when the weather changes, it becomes difficult for them to adapt.
One of the goals of setbacks is to take away your willpower to try and go again.
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You must never lose your fighting spirit
Life will constantly test your resolve to get up again after a setback. It will test your ability to try again and your inner strength to keep going even when all hope seems lost.
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I am the happiest girl rn.
Three years of training completed.
I am going to be a GP 🤩🤩🥳🥳🥳🤸♀️🤸♀️🤸♀️
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Lesson 6: Build Your Work Ethic Early
Work ethic and discipline don’t come in one lump sum. They are habits we build gradually, and the early phase of career is one of the most important periods for building them.
Today, there are many things we can easily hide under like "work life balance", "my work is 9 to 5", "I don’t open my laptop on weekends", "demanding work is toxic" etc.
There is truth in some of these things. Rest and boundaries are important.
But if you have big ambitions, particularly early in your career when you mostly have your work to speak for you, I don’t think you can follow all of them rigidly and expect exceptional outcomes.
Also, like most folks, you may not get the big job, great pay, role or opportunity you think you deserve early in life. That shouldn’t become a reason for doing just enough.
Develop the attitude that wherever you find yourself, you will do the best you can with what you have. Not necessarily for your employer, but because your work ethic is an expression of who you are.
If you build the habit of doing just enough, mediocrity can become comfortable. And when the opportunity you’ve been waiting for eventually comes, you may not have built the discipline required for it.
Don’t wait for the big job, perfect role, promotion, salary or the country you want to japa to before developing a great work ethic.
It is better to be prepared for an opportunity that doesn’t come than for the opportunity to come and find you unprepared.
You are not only working for your employer, you are building yourself, small small.
Lesson 5: Attitude and Talent
From my experience, Talent matters, but attitude matters more.
You need talent to succeed. Technical skills, analytical ability, communication skills, commercial awareness, and all the other capabilities we spend years building absolutely matter.
But attitude matters too.
By attitude, I mean how you approach work and people. Your willingness to learn, openness to feedback, sense of ownership, ability to stay positive under pressure, respect for others, accountability and work ethic etc.
But talent alone does not guarantee success.
I've seen very talented people underperform or struggle in teams because of poor attitude.
On the other hand, a good attitude does not automatically guarantee success either. However, a bad attitude almost guarantees failure.
Leaders want people with both talent and attitude.
But if they had to choose between a moderately talented person with a great attitude and a highly talented person with a poor attitude, I know which one most leaders would rather work with.
Talent is not contagious. Attitude is.
One person with a poor attitude can affect an entire team.
One person who constantly complains, resists feedback, creates excuses, avoids accountability, or brings negative energy can do more damage than a skill gap ever will.
Skill can be taught. Experience can be gained.
Attitude is much harder to fix.
In fact, most times, you can get a fairly good sense of someone's attitude within the first few weeks of working with them.
Over the years, I've found it useful to think about people in four categories (as shown in the pics)
The best teams are not built on talent alone.
They are built on people who are capable, coachable, accountable, dependable, and positive.
Never underestimate the power of attitude.
A lot of team can survive a talent gap. It rarely survives an attitude problem.
Your talent may get you noticed. Your attitude determines how far people are willing to go with you.
Be intentional about the attitude you are building and displaying at work
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If you like, don’t trust the process; be looking for quick returns. And if you like, because you are not seeing those immediate returns, give up.
That's on you.
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At the end of the day, nobody knows how hard you grind for your goals, how lonely you feel at times, how much sleep you sacrifice, or the daily pressure you carry. That's why you have to remember to do it for yourself, whatever that thing is.
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Can’t lie to you. If you don’t make a move, you will see literal clowns race past you. Clowns.
Nothing concern life with ‘I am a smart, educated, experienced person’.
You don’t act, you remain there.
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10 Pieces of Advice for Anyone Starting a Career
Extract grom my book, Road to VI
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We envision a world where no talented student is held back from advanced education due to financial or systemic barriers.
Grateful to all who continue to contribute to ensure many more stories like this become possible.
@MtScholarships
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This is the difference between Messi and others... If you can't score, you create....
This is what it means to be best.
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what Argentina do on a football pitch is spiritual. they stare death in the face and just refuse to die. life lesson in there.
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Argentina might be the only team that teaches you Never ever to lose hope in life. God, what a team!
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Lamine Yamal ran a World Cup semifinal at 18. He won the penalty, tormented grown professionals, and looked like the calmest man on the pitch. Somewhere in Nigeria and across Africa there are teenagers with that same ceiling who will spend the next ten years being told to wait their turn, carry the bags, and respect the hierarchy. Talent does not care about your seniority chart. Spain built a place where an eighteen year old could decide a semifinal, and it just put them in the final.
The question for every organisation is simple:
Would your Yamal even make the pitch?























