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We all have childish thoughts at some point in life, and sometimes we fail to recognise whatโs truly good for us. If time could be reversed, wallahi, Iโd choose him over and over again.I just didnโt know what life had in store for me
Ubangiji Allah ya jikanshi da rahama. Allah ya gafartamishi. Ameeen Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum. But my questions are? Do you love him at first? And what does it mean that youโre not ready for marriage when he first proposed ?
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One week after they got married, he told me he had a trip coming up. I told him it was too soon for someone who had only been married for a week to travel, so he postponed it until the following week.
Two weeks after their marriage, on the day he was leaving,
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making sure you looked good, only for him not to show up.
Later, he apologised for days. He was still apologising even a day before his wedding. From that day, I started replying to his messages late. Sometimes, I would ignore them altogether, but he would still call to check
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said he wasnโt sure whether I was still available because it was already late. I told him it was fine and that he could just go back home.
Honestly, I was hurt. It was a particular kind of pain: cooking for someone, excitedly looking forward to seeing them
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Sometimes, we would even joke about me attending his wedding and the brideโs friends beating me up. He would laugh and say they wouldnโt dare not even the bride herself. And that was how things went.
Sometimes, when they were together, he would call me and hand her the phone
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O Allah, return Ramadan to us for many years and extended times while we are in health, well-being, and a happy life.
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Girl to girl, start a business or get a job. Learn the Qurโan, know your rights, build financial stability, and make istighfar a constant part of your life
The world is no longer kind to women who have to depend on others
Give yourself the ability to stand on your own.
